KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I really don't even know why I'm surprised. I'm not so much hurt as I am STEAMING angry. Even after all the crap my ex put me through, I still wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt and believe what he told me when breaking up. He had never been single, needed to be alone because he never was. Just wanted to focus on himself. Blah, blah, blah. Basically, why even read any further? Everyone here knows this is a load of horse manure. I'll go on anyway. So he's blocked on FB but I'm still mutual friends with everyone so I saw his cousin posted summer pictures and I just went to look. He's in a couple of them, one is with this one girl. Her body is facing him dead on, they are pressed together... it's not a family member. I was around 3 years. So being the nosey person I am, I wanted to see who I could FB stalk to fill me in on who this chick could be. Found a mutual friend that I know he spends his weekends with... and lo and behold... there is a post from this girl using a phrase my ex used all the time. Saying what a fun weekend they had. My ex took her to his Hamptons house. The one he always took me to. He brought her into the whole circle of friends. She's been introduced to his entire family. We've been broken up just under 3 months now. And she's around his friends group and his family. This clearly isn't something that just started... so EVERYTHING he told me when breaking up with me was a load of garbage. I know, I KNOW! I shouldn't be surprised. But I'm shaking I'm so angry. I want to call him out I'm so angry. Call him out for the lying, deceitful piece of sh*t he really is. But I know I can't, because then I look psycho. So that's why I'm posting here... so I can vent... and figuratively punch things. I hate him. I truly, honestly, fully, hate him. He couldn't even have been honest at any point. That's what gets me.
january2011 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Seems like an exercise in masochism to me. Probably a good idea to block all the "mutuals" so that you don't fall for this again. Your anger is only going to cause you more pain. He seems happy with his new life. I say leave him to it. As irksome as it is, you and he aren't in any kind of relationship anymore so any "rights" to honesty, especially retrospectively, are void. I say you dodged a bullet, you don't need a "lying, deceitful piece of sh*t" in your life. 1
favoritepills Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) This guy is a lying, wimpy speck of s--t. But I'm glad you came here first instead of ranting at him, I know it must have been tough to tamp down that urge. You did the right thing, since he doesn't deserve your attention or your emotions. You are doing GREAT without him and that's the best revenge. If you blew up at him he'd just use that as further justification for leaving you, and probably bitch about it to his girlfriend and sleep better at night. Look on the bright side: hating him makes it easier to get over him (in my limited experience, anyway) -- because now you REALLY don't want him back. So just keep doing what you're doing, forget about this loser, and meet somebody even better who makes the ex look like an amateur. Edited August 2, 2012 by favoritepills 2
artchick88 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 You were together for 3 years?? And just like that he has a new chick??? What a f*king B*TCH he is!!!!!!!!!! I'd probably call him out. Just call him and tell him, hey you cheating SOB have a nice life go f*ck yourself and hang up. I dunno but maybe that won't help. Time to look the sexiest you've ever looked and land a hot new guy to distract you from that mess. Works every time 2
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 New update: wait for it... wait for it!! I was in a 19 month long distance relationship with this kid. Supported him up and down. He then moved back to NY to be closer to friends, family, and obviously me. He was so excited. He comes back gets a job with a major league baseball team, and is literally at that job... i'd say a month, two at tops when he dumps me. Swears up and down there is no one else he just needs to be single. Guess where this broad is from?!?!? THE STADIUM. He met her at work while dating me. Oh, and she's 5 years younger. Lets just WAIT FOR IT and see how long this lasts!! HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAH I cannot WAIT until Karma punches him right in the face.
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 This guy is a lying, wimpy speck of s--t. But I'm glad you came here first instead of ranting at him, I know it must have been tough to tamp down that urge. You did the right thing, since he doesn't deserve your attention or your emotions. You are doing GREAT without him and that's the best revenge. If you blew up at him he'd just use that as further justification for leaving you, and probably bitch about it to his girlfriend and sleep better at night. Look on the bright side: hating him makes it easier to get over him (in my limited experience, anyway) -- because now you REALLY don't want him back. So just keep doing what you're doing, forget about this loser, and meet somebody even better who makes the ex look like an amateur. You know what, I don't even need to rant at him. This chick has **** on me. I'm successful. I have my own apartment, a great career going, I support myself. I'm beautiful and a great catch. I'm 28 and I'm mature enough to see where I'm going and what I deserve. Meanwhile, he is going to be 27, still living at home, no car, a sh*t salary, thousands of dollars in debt, he can't get his sh*t together, he's fumbling, no clue where he's going, and now dating a 22 year old kid. Lets all wait for the GIGS here. I cannot WAIT to see this explode in his face.
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 He was always so terrified of commitment and that's all I represented! Engagement and settling down, and I can see that fully now that he's dating someone who's in no way close to even wanting to be engaged, or to have kids. Now he can screw around as long as he wants with no time limit!
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 WAIT WAIT! there's more!!! hahahahahaahahahahah I'm dying guys, omg. :lmao::lmao::lmao: I put up a "Karma" image on facebook, and one of our mutual friends texted me asking if i was ok because my status was worrying... and I was like... you know what, i know she's going to run and tell my ex this ****, but who the hell cares. I told her that the situation was laughable really, and that i have people still looking out for me, and that they told me my ex had lied and that he met someone at his job when he swore to my face there was no one else. And she responded... Oh yeah... I knew about that girl... but just so you know, it's over now. The whole time line matches up, GIGS style to the T. My ex apparently told this mutual friend that at the time of the split, it was only temporary. HAH! And this makes sense why after 7 weeks no contact he tells me to "lose his number." That was at the point he started up with this work chick... and exactly one month later, it's done. HAHAHAHAHAH little girls can't match up to this!! :lmao::lmao::lmao: 1
Floored Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Yes, YES! Let the hate flow through you! But seriously, your progress through this thread was borderline manic, and it was awesome if not slightly terrifying. 8
blue_jay_bird Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Be proud of yourself. You have your **** together. This guy selfish mess, only thinking about a new ****. Stay Strong. 1
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Yes, YES! Let the hate flow through you! But seriously, your progress through this thread was borderline manic, and it was awesome if not slightly terrifying. hahahahahhaha i went from like Psycho--- knife in shower scene, to padded wall hysterical laughter. I was planning on waiting for the Karma to smack him in the face and I was told of it in the same night I found out he had gotten that new girl! The range of emotion is clearly evident here hahhahaha.
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Wait... wait... this one last thing... this is how quick it got back to my ex that I knew. The picture was deleted from Facebook. 1
AlexanderJames Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 New update: wait for it... wait for it!! I was in a 19 month long distance relationship with this kid. Supported him up and down. He then moved back to NY to be closer to friends, family, and obviously me. He was so excited. He comes back gets a job with a major league baseball team, and is literally at that job... i'd say a month, two at tops when he dumps me. Swears up and down there is no one else he just needs to be single. Guess where this broad is from?!?!? THE STADIUM. He met her at work while dating me. Oh, and she's 5 years younger. Lets just WAIT FOR IT and see how long this lasts!! HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAH I cannot WAIT until Karma punches him right in the face. Wouldn't be suprised if he's only dating this girl to stop himself from hurting over you. It's probably a rebound relationship. Rest assured I predict it wont last, he will get bored and leave her and then all the hurt he had been blocking out and all the memories of the two of you will flood back in and he will be hating himself for being the POS he is. I also wouldnt be suprised if after this fling he feels so shi* that he tries to get back in touch and work things out with you. I dont know your story in detail but that's my prediction none the less. If im right make sure you send him packing.
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 Wouldn't be suprised if he's only dating this girl to stop himself from hurting over you. It's probably a rebound relationship. Rest assured I predict it wont last, he will get bored and leave her and then all the hurt he had been blocking out and all the memories of the two of you will flood back in and he will be hating himself for being the POS he is. I also wouldnt be suprised if after this fling he feels so shi* that he tries to get back in touch and work things out with you. I dont know your story in detail but that's my prediction none the less. If im right make sure you send him packing. Read the subsequent updates! It's already over with this girl. It went on just under a month... it's over now and he found out I knew of this girl, and had his cousin delete the picture of them together on FB! This whole thread reads like a soap opera to me.
AlexanderJames Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 My bad! Lol. I hate soap opera's. Start living a comedy or an action Much more fun! Or a porno if it's your thing. Haha.
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) My bad! Lol. I hate soap opera's. Start living a comedy or an action Much more fun! Or a porno if it's your thing. Haha. You wouldn't classify this as borderline comedic? Ex tries to move on, gets involved with "classy" broad from where he works, knows he can't man up to a mature level so stoops to trying to date a child, fling fizzles in less than a month. It was a SERIOUS downgrade too... I kind of feel bad for whatever he's going through. Wooommppp woommmppp wooommmmmmmmmmp. I REALLY would flip my sh*t if he tried to contact me. Do you really think he'd have the balls?? Now that he knows I KNOW all about this? Edited August 2, 2012 by KatZee
AlexanderJames Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 I dont know if I'd classify it as comedic. But then again this guy hasn't hurt me so I have no sinister feelings towards him. To me I see a guy trying to deal with his broken heart in the wrong ways. It's caused you pain, sadness and anger and it's only prolonging his own. At the end of the day it's his life to live how he choses. And it should't affect you anymore. All you should be focusing on is your life. It's all well and good you having a laugh at his expense and making fun of him if it makes you feel better. Just remember that in doing this you are involving yourself in your ex and his life once again, somewhere you had worked so hard and suffered so much to get yourself out of. Don't let it become toxic. He's dowgraded, and is experimenting with failed rebound relationships. He's probably unhappy. Okay good at least he's not living the dream. Now get back to focussing on who you want to be and where you want to go. Instead of dwelling on his downgrade get out there and earn yourself an upgrade 1
Floored Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Yes, I think he will try to contact you, with talk of mistakes and never knowing what he had, and the usual stuff. A perfect rebuttal: "I've made some mistakes too..." Then send him a picture with you nibbling on a bloody animal pelt. You don't need to let him know that the pelt was just a fur from an already dead animal, and that it was fake blood all over the pelt and your mouth, that's for him to determine and be afraid of. And just like that, NC from him, possibly a restraining order filed against you- a win for all parties, and possibly the beginning of a beautiful comedy like Alexander was talking about. Or a porno, if you're into those shadier niches. I try to avoid posting nonsensical situations, but this would totally be the angry KatZee that's been blowing this thread up today. 1
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 yes, i think he will try to contact you, with talk of mistakes and never knowing what he had, and the usual stuff. A perfect rebuttal: "i've made some mistakes too..." then send him a picture with you nibbling on a bloody animal pelt. You don't need to let him know that the pelt was just a fur from an already dead animal, and that it was fake blood all over the pelt and your mouth, that's for him to determine and be afraid of. And just like that, nc from him, possibly a restraining order filed against you- a win for all parties, and possibly the beginning of a beautiful comedy like alexander was talking about. Or a porno, if you're into those shadier niches. I try to avoid posting nonsensical situations, but this would totally be the angry katzee that's been blowing this thread up today. we don't hurt the animals in this thread!!!!!!$&!*&p^#!!!!!! >:-(
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 (edited) Angry KatZee's scenario would go something like this: [Fade In... start to pan across room to cell phone laying on counter] Ring Ring! KatZee walks to the phone: "Hello?" (Listens intently... nods. Looks sympathetic.) KatZee: I completely understand. We're all human and we all make mistakes. You weren't in the right frame of mind... I must confess... I've made mistakes of my own. [Camera does a quick zoom out, cue dramatic music, shot now shows a charred pile of items] KatZee: Yes... just earlier I accidentally tripped over this open container of gasoline here. It just so happened to spill over all of these clothes I still had left of yours that for some reason were laid out in a pile. What a coincidence! Crazy, right? Well, I went to go clean it up but I mistook a match for a rag! Of ALL the mistakes! I can't even believe it. Anyway, I started to rub the match back and forth and it caught a spark and you wouldn't believe what happened next! I meant to put it out with water, but again I mistook the container of gasoline for water! And the whole thing really just went up in flames! Anyway, sorry about that. I'm sure you can replace all of these vintage jerseys. Oh, and I accidentally stumbled over the side walk and ended up losing my grip on the tactical pocket knife that was in my hand. It's now embedded in your rear passenger tire after bouncing off and poking holes in the other three. What a mistake! Woopsie! [camera does a quick zoom to KatZees eye and raised eyebrow... cue the dramatic music... andddd... black.] >:-) Edited August 2, 2012 by KatZee 1
Floored Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 *looks at the thread title* *looks at KatZee's last post* You had that little number planned the whole time didn't you? Slap a little guitar in the background and it'd make a great country song too.
Author KatZee Posted August 2, 2012 Author Posted August 2, 2012 *looks at the thread title* *looks at KatZee's last post* You had that little number planned the whole time didn't you? Slap a little guitar in the background and it'd make a great country song too. bahahaha. No. I just got the inspiration after a friend told me he threw all his exes clothes in the chimney and lit it on fire. The ex came back to the house a few days later looking for the clothes and he said, "Don't bother. I put 'em all in the chimney and lit it up." The ex started to cry. He goes, "Are you f'ing kidding me? You cheat on me, and leave me for another man after 9 years, and then show up here crying about your clothes!?" 3
RogerWallace111 Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 Yes, YES! Let the hate flow through you! But seriously, your progress through this thread was borderline manic, and it was awesome if not slightly terrifying. :laugh::laugh:
Car10e Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 My ex bf sorta did the same thing. We were on break for about a month, but I still had so much hope in us. I tried so hard to get him to meet with me, which he did, but admitted he didn't want to. As the weeks went on, he became very distant all of a sudden. Everyone asked if there was someone else, but I always gave him the benefit of the doubt saying he's not like that. I couldn't handle it anymore so I told him one night that he had to tell me what he wanted to do. He said he wasn't ready to commit to a relationship right now....after being with me for 4 1/2 years. I just figured maybe he needed space so I left him alone for a week. Until I found out through my brother who also works with one of one my ex bf's co-workers. She had told my brother that some girl was going around calling my ex her new bf. This was literally the day after we broke up. I couldn't believe it, and put everything together. He was distant because he was seeing her the same time I was trying to fix things between us. He didn't ever have time for me, because he was seeing her already. I know he was not cheating or even dating her while we were still okay, but I know when we went on break he began talking to her. It just broke my heart that he hid it from me. I also found out, its a girl he has been working with for over a year. People tell me she is conceited. Facebook doesn't make it easy either. I have not blocked him or her. I want them both to see how well I am doing. I see her posts stuff to make me jealous, but I ignore it. Posting stuff saying, "Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you,” to make me jealous just makes me laugh. She thinks she can top me in a month, while I was with him for 4 1/2 years and he tells people he still loves me but we're not good for each other at the moment. I should also note she posts things like this and then takes them down, which is pretty strange. Moral of the story is don't let facebook ruin you. I know its hard when your curious to see how they are doing, but if your not on good terms with your ex, its so much harder. And if you are on good terms, be mature about it. One thing I learned is ignoring is the best thing. Sure it may bother you, but sometimes not doing anything at all is the best thing to do. I'm sure my ex's new girl wants me to see those things, but not giving her the attention she is asking for just makes her look pathetic. 1
TheBetterPerson Posted August 2, 2012 Posted August 2, 2012 What a massive A-Hole!!! Why cant they just be on their own for a while to spare peoples feelings! Absolute Selfish prick that can only fall under the taker catagory! Takes, Takes, Takes and has nothing to give back! Makes you so angry! how they get with someone else straight away makes me think that all the things they have ever said was a pack of lies 2
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