Brokendude Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 I love her an always will but the one thing i wont miss about her is being a drama queen and so cheap thats for damn sure... Feel free to vent on here guys i think it helps our psyche a little bit
KatZee Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 (edited) 1. His inability to recognize he ever did anything wrong. 2. His lack of interest or caring about anything going on in my life. 3. His lack of empathy. 4. His selfish nature. 5. His disrespect. 6. His impulsive nature with no regard for consequence. 7. His immaturity. 8. The way he put everything above me, but then said I was the most important person to him. 9. His lack of communication skills. 10. The way he lied about most if not all things. 11. When he cheated. 12. When he took advantage and took every ounce of my kindness, and support for granted. 13. The way he never talked about anything other than sports. Refused to even know what the hell was going on in the world. 14. His irresponsibility in regards to money, doing things on time, or being places on time. 15. The way he would get black out drunk and disrespect me in public. Embarrass me. Humiliate me. Grope me. Then wake up the next morning with no clue about anything. 16. The way he allowed his friends to disrespect me. 17. How everything was always my fault. He justified treating me certain ways because it was my fault I made him act that way. 18. The emotional manipulation. 19. The way he made me feel insecure, unworthy, and never good enough no matter what I did, how hard I tried, or how much I tried to change. 20. His vicious cycle of criticism. Attacks on me personally, my lifestyle, my attitude. 21. When he started showing signs of control. Forced me to go places with him when I told him I was uncomfortable and didn't want to go. 22. His silent treatment that went on for days. Then he would just act like it never happened at all. 23. The way he had me walking on eggshells. I would edit things I'd say, or edit the way I acted just so I didn't bring another "silent treatment" my way. 24. How he'd always complain about money that he had none, so I'd pay my way for a lot. And then he'd go out and spend money on useless crap such as a baseball hat, or a jersey. 25. How he'd tell me something one day, and then I'd repeat what he said at a later time and he'd say, "I never said that, you're twisting what I said." He made me feel crazy. 26. When he said he was an internal person and never let people in, and then I found out he ran to his ex to talk crap about me and our relationship. 27. His mood swings. He always proclaimed to NEED positive people in his life (which I am. I always look for the best in all situations, rarely complain) and he would always try to tell me I'm so negative (when others call me bubbly?). He's one of the most negative people I know, and a lot of the people he surrounds himself with are negative and toxic as well. 28. The way I was expected to jump when he said "jump" but he never went out of his way for me at all. Edited July 25, 2012 by KatZee
Author Brokendude Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 K it was supposed to be 1 thing but that works ur in pain and u have every right!!!
KatZee Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 K it was supposed to be 1 thing but that works ur in pain and u have every right!!! Yeah I was gonna say, this is way more than one thing. but how can you just pick ONE THING from that entire list? I was actually editing and adding number 29 too.
Author Brokendude Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 Hahaha katz add it right on!! This is what we need to do to get better and knock them off the stupid pedestal
KatZee Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 Hahaha katz add it right on!! This is what we need to do to get better and knock them off the stupid pedestal Now I have to remember! I was on a roll and you knocked me off track! :PP
Ruby65 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 All those STUPID FLIRTY FEMALE FACEBOOK FRIENDS constantly posting all their stupid flirty female facebook messages all over his page....... uggggggghhhhhhh.......... Won't miss that at all! They can HAVE him.
Author Brokendude Posted July 25, 2012 Author Posted July 25, 2012 Ya ruby !!! Go you!!! And sorry katz haha
Hindsight_is_20_20 Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 The constant snooping around on my computer and cell phone and then giving me crap about things that weren't even remotely true even though HE was the one doing something behind my back.
Lisa_Lisa Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 The way he manipulated and conned me out of my hard earned money.
IST Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Well admittedly this may have been a result of her feelings changing and our relationship about to be ending, but she was really derisive and condescending towards me for a couple weeks before the end of our relationship. (And in the month that we tried to be friends) But honestly, I didn't have much to complain about. It was a good relationship.
LonelyInsomniac Posted July 26, 2012 Posted July 26, 2012 Lying about the break-up when the main thing you adored about her was her usually consistent honesty with you.
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