forgottenangel99 Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 Ok, so a lot has been going on since my last post and I have tried to be strong even though I am tired of this situation. I can fill in details if you need them but I wanna get to the meat and potatoes of my current concern. I knew that was not the end of things considering we have a child on the way....... Ok, we recently started back talking again (yes I got weak and decided to start trying to talk to him only for the simple fact that I was gonna have to eventually anyway, it's almost that time!!). He has been keeping up with my appointments and at my most recent one he brought his other children along, seemed to be really happy to see me and was very attentive and supportive. When we were leaving he walked me to my car opened the door for me and told me he loved me and kissed me on my cheek. I gave him a blank stare and he left without another word (this was last Monday). So yesterday we were talking and at the end of our convo he asked me if I could keep his children while he was at work the next day. Well they came over I talked to them and we had a little fun and laughter.....to make a long story short I decided to ask him why he wanted to be so close to me (I was getting at something to that nature). He replied that he would like to "get along" with me and he told me he loved me (again) and always will. He also said he told the girl (his gf??) that he will always love me and there was nothing she could do to change that and she could either accept it or move on and they have that understanding.........WHAT THE F--- DOES THIS MEAN??! Why would a guy tell his current gf that if he wants to be with her and where would that put the ex (me)???? I have never been in a situation like this before so please give me some feedback as to what this means... Thank you everyone!!! Love ya in advance!!!
Author forgottenangel99 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 Ok, so a lot has been going on since my last post and I have tried to be strong even though I am tired of this situation. I can fill in details if you need them but I wanna get to the meat and potatoes of my current concern. I knew that was not the end of things considering we have a child on the way....... Anybody?? I can't sleep because this is bothering me so much!! I just blocked his number and I will just have to ignore texts. I'm starting to seriously hate him for this!!! Please help me!!!
Cl0udy Posted July 16, 2012 Posted July 16, 2012 You have a child on the way. He loved you he always will. He may have romantic feelings for his GF. But she has to understand that you guys are gonna have a child together. She obviously likes him since has accepted the terms and conditions. What you need to do now is play the cool soon to be mom card. Tell him he is welcomed to be part of the process as much as he wants. Most importantly you will still hold your own. He will see how strong of a woman you really are. In time by accepting his realationship, being a lovely mother and a confident woman he may realize that he wants to have this family with you. I honestly don't think him and his GF are gonna work out. That is only if you don't get Jelous and you do try to move on. Trust me his actions will speaker louder than his words.
Author forgottenangel99 Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 You have a child on the way. He loved you he always will. He may have romantic feelings for his GF. But she has to understand that you guys are gonna have a child together. She obviously likes him since has accepted the terms and conditions. Hi Cloudy, thank you so much for responding!!! I can't sleep and I'm so angry and hurt I can't even cry!! In my initial post about this story it explains that this girl is also pregnant and says that it's his. He has stated several months ago that he has a question in whether it's really his child or not but continues to be with her, calls her home his and is living like this is normal!!! I'm so hurt and angry I want to strangle both of them!!! How dare he do this!!! We planned this child with the onset of planning a wedding and now she gets to be his "understanding" woman!!! I understood when he had nothing and nobody and I'm left in sunset while this t***p reaps the rewards of my caring, loving heart. I have tried to move on, that's when the the attentive care and concern came in. What the crap does he mean he loves me while he is showing it to someone who was not around when he needed it most??! Why even bother to tell me that if his love is just gonna be given to someone else??
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