BouncinTigger Posted April 18, 2003 Share Posted April 18, 2003 I'm in a bind and don't know what to do. I've been with my fiance for 4 1/2 yrs and just don't feel any love I feel the urge to see other guys. I tried explaining to him what I feel and what I want and it seems like he doesn't understand even tho he says he does and hes glad I'm being honest with him. I truley love him but I don't feel like I'm IN love with him. We have been thro so much having children together and we lost a child almost 3 yrs ago. It hurts me to want to leave him but I feel like its something I need to do to make myself happy. I don't like to see him hurt cuz it hurts me too. We have talked about giving it one more shot to see if we can try to work things out but I have no idea of any thing to try. Also I'm ?ing if I really want to stay or move on. I'M CONFUSED AND DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. My heart tells me I want to stay with him but yet it tells me hes not the one for me. Any help or advice would be really appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
runthroughfire Posted April 18, 2003 Share Posted April 18, 2003 Have you thought or spoken about a trial separation? Link to post Share on other sites
Author BouncinTigger Posted April 18, 2003 Author Share Posted April 18, 2003 We have talked about going our own way and about our feelings. But he feels the spark there but I don't and I want to try to get it back. It hurts us both to go our own way and the subject of dating other people. I feel the need for my own space and time but am not sure if that will do us any good expecially If one were to start seeing someone else. I really want to try to make this work but like I told him I may just be ment for him but hes not ment for me. Link to post Share on other sites
runthroughfire Posted April 18, 2003 Share Posted April 18, 2003 All I can say is that I believe (can't be sure) that if I and my ex-partner had taken a break to discover our true feelings with no pressure, rather than let our relationship deteriorate, we might still be together. Link to post Share on other sites
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