The Other Man / Woman

17,704 topics in this forum

1. Why are cheating spouses capable of reform, but OW's are not? 1 2 3

   By EPC82, November 2, 2020
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   • pepperbird2
   • November 13, 2020

2. 3 weeks today of NC and still going strong

   By BeaNeverLearns, November 8, 2020
   • 15 replies
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   • Bonifidelifelover
   • November 13, 2020

3. My GF was the OW in her previous relationship. Some thoughts/insecurities I need to air 1 2 3

   By Unsureaboutmyself, November 1, 2020
   • 71 replies
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   • Crazelnut
   • November 9, 2020

4. Telling children about an affair 1 2 3 4

   By EPC82, October 1, 2020
   • 79 replies
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   • sandylee1
   • November 8, 2020

5. Not sure what to do?

   By stephen48, October 31, 2020
   • 11 replies
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   • ExpatInItaly
   • November 4, 2020

6. Who calls off the affair usually?

   By Mia12, October 24, 2020
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   • Patrice
   • October 31, 2020

7. So why do they call it 'Rewriting history' 1 2

   By snowcones, October 23, 2020
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   • snowcones
   • October 30, 2020

8. update

   By Birdies, September 30, 2020
   • 17 replies
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   • Birdies
   • October 28, 2020

9. Just initiated full NC ghosting needing support 1 2

   By BeaNeverLearns, October 18, 2020
   • 43 replies
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   • mark clemson
   • October 28, 2020

10. EAP is pregnant with her husbands baby 1 2

    By Bear1987, October 15, 2020
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    • snowcones
    • October 26, 2020

11. He came back after D Day just to leave again

    By Brokenhearted2020, August 13, 2020
    • 20 replies
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    • pepperbird2
    • October 20, 2020

12. Translation key for 'newbie'

    By hajk, October 16, 2020
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    • Happy Lemming
    • October 20, 2020

13. Can you be an OW indefinitely? 1 2

    By MrsTiffany, July 25, 2020
    • 32 replies
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    • BeaNeverLearns
    • October 18, 2020

14. Can you ever be friends with an ex AP?

    By introuble2020, October 3, 2020
    • 16 replies
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    • Luna66star
    • October 10, 2020

15. Don't know how to move on

    By Tye345, October 2, 2020
    • 13 replies
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    • ABernie
    • October 6, 2020

16. The Not Quite Affair Affair 1 2 3 4 6

    By Imgoodimfine, September 1, 2020
    • 136 replies
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    • lifeoflies
    • October 2, 2020

17. Is this the end? 1 2

    By magnolia18, September 24, 2020
    • 32 replies
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    • lifeoflies
    • October 2, 2020

18. Sudden D-Day and Questions 1 2

    By CTC20, September 30, 2020
    • 26 replies
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    • C52
    • September 30, 2020

19. I feel so guilty and disgusted with myself. 1 2

    By introuble2020, September 29, 2020
    • 27 replies
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    • MsJayne
    • September 30, 2020

20. Seeing MM whilesearching for Mr Right? 1 2

    By MrsTiffany, September 23, 2020
    • 47 replies
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    • Bittersweetie
    • September 27, 2020

21. Intermittent Reinforcement in an Affair

    By SS2855, September 20, 2020
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    • Miss Clavel
    • September 23, 2020

22. Need support 1 2

    By theperfectlife, September 16, 2020
    • 29 replies
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    • Mrin
    • September 20, 2020

23. Why is he reserved?

    By laurastella, September 13, 2020
    • 9 replies
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    • elaine567
    • September 20, 2020

24. Can't stop myself!

    By Jklivin, September 12, 2020
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    • Watercolors
    • September 19, 2020

25. Is it possible? 1 2

    By LaylaLynne, August 21, 2020
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    • ExpatInItaly
    • September 19, 2020