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I worked with a man up until late last year and we hit it off a few weeks before I left the company. He had a girlfriend so I didn't think much of it, until the night I left work and we were out together celebrating, he was flirting quite obviously. I asked immediately if he was in an open relationship and he confirmed he was. The night went on and we were having so much fun, we eventually kissed but nothing more, and continued the night until the wee hours. He then went home as did I. I had asked him to a gig that night and followed up with him over the coming days. A few weeks later the

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And given his poor choices in how he's set things up with you, his own actions during the marriage could be part of equation to his wife going nuts at him. I mean, getting mad and leaving without telling anyone where he's going? Ending the marriage and going away for two weeks without even being able to be contacted by his daughter who has cancer?

I guess I’m wondering here what have you done for him. He’s doing these nice things to show you he cares about you as a person and what have you done to show that you care about him? Flirting is usually sexual in nature and speaks to a physical chemistry or magnetic pull between individuals. You tease and feel teased and there’s often sexual tension. You probably won’t miss it for being friendly or a “friend thing”. I don’t know how old you are and would not encourage that sort of thing if you’re very young. I suspected very young and checked your profile. You’re 13-17. Spend more t

It's possible that he is still the same messed up kid who treated you badly when you were teenagers. I hope not, but he doesn't sound like he's dealing with any of the serious issues in his life like a stable adult. Also - don't jump to the conclusion that his wife is "faking" her illnesses. I can't imagine what kind of stress it would put on a mother to be going through cancer with her daughter, and at the same time her husband is running off with his teenage girlfriend. It would make a lot of people sick to have that happening in their lives.

Kindly, you need to stop arguing because it's getting you nowhere. There is a saying "when someone shows you who they are, believe them". He's showing you who he is and now it's time to decide what to do with this information. Can you accept him for who he really is? Or is it a dealbreaker for you? (For what it's worth, it would be a dealbreaker for me) It's time for you to make a decision

I think it’s your picker. If you’re regularly experiencing this you’re somehow screening profiles or women who have this tmi trait or inability to discern what is appropriate or not around others - basically not caring or not being able to read the room. The common denominator is you if this happens often so I’d go back to square 1 and take a look more closely. Before you agree to meet in person, find out a little about their lifestyle, schedules, values, beliefs. It doesn’t have to be long. You can get a pretty keen read in one conversation over the phone or messaging.

Dreams usually aren’t literal. If she felt betrayal or distrust of you or your reactions in the past it might manifest as this scenario at random, not necessarily that she thinks you’re a cheater. This is just a hunch and obviously not me telling you what she feels. I sincerely hope you expressed empathy and asked her how she feels now, not just brushed aside her feelings with jokes. I don’t blame you if you felt blindsided and upset also by what she said as if it taints your character. If I had to guess she doesn’t often trust your reactions in general.

Is the disclosing a red flag, or is the large amount of sex the red flag? Personally, I'd rather someone disclose than for me to be in the dark about their very recent history

This morning, my SO and I woke up to the howling protestations of her cat's empty food bowl. This is not an unusual occurrence, especially on the particular mornings like this one where she's rostered on to start late. It is usually on these mornings where we can sleep in until awoken by natural (or introduced forces 😸) which do not involve an alarm, connect intimately and still have time to relax and share a coffee and some breakfast whilst not feeling rushed. As it were, this morning seemed be no exception to this rule, and so when she returned to bed after feeding the needy fur-child

You clearly are talking to women who are looking for one night stands (or at least talking to women who are looking to have sex very early on). So this is still on you. There are guys for those women to talk to and you clearly are not one of them. So why are you talking to them? There are definitely women who have more conservative viewpoints about sex so why aren't you talking to them? Are you still trying to talk to women who show off their cleavage in their photos even though you get a little offended when they end up being a little more forward about sex than you prefer?

I’m sorry Heather if my post sounds blunt and hash - I can imagine that’s how you will read it. Please know, I have no judgment toward you. I have been rather blunt and honest with you because I think you really need to consider the reality of this situation - and I don’t think that’s what you are doing right now. There is a lot of drama here, and that’s only going to get worse if/when he leaves - particularly if the two of you sneak off and try to go incommunicato… Love conquers all only in fairy tales… which seems to be what you are hoping for here - a happy ending for everyone. You would be

It's ok to speak about sex in context, I am very much ok with that. What I am not ok is you telling me how many shlongs you sucked last week. This tells me A) you are trying to impress me B) you are trying to emasculate me or C) you have no social skills

A lot of this behavior is pre date, like on the phone through text.

None of what you describe is flirting other than possibly the teasing. But here's the teasing. Flirting isn't just words. Flirting is a back and forth. If he is really flirting with you, you would feel it. If you don't feel the flirting, then there's no flirting. Flirting that we can't recognize and that we don't respond to and match is a mismatch. It's one hand clapping. Do you feel any flutters when he talks to you? Any special excitement. If you don't feel that, then ignore your friends.

Exactly. This really comes down to the people the OP is choosing to go on dates with. And he has no one to blame but himself for that. If he doesn't like that type of behavior then he needs to go out with women who have the same attitude about sex as he does.

You're going out with the wrong people.

Yes you probably would seem a little boring. Generally speaking the sooner people begin talking about sex the sooner they are comfortable having sex. I'm sure many of those women have sex on the first date if they find a guy they have chemistry with.

Let’s begin by acknowledging that his relationship with his children is his relationship with his children. It’s not really your place to involve yourself in their relationship. And let’s be very honest - his children are not going to want to talk with you or meet you anytime soon - if ever. If he leaves his marriage to be in a relationship with you, this may actually sever his relationship with his children. Ask me how I know this? My friend severed her relationship with her father when he did something very similar. It broke her family apart, almost destroyed her mother, and hurt my fr

I seem a little boring because I get turned off after 15 mins into chips and salsa someone is telling me how they had a random one night stand a few days ago? Because I actually possess social accumen and have more to offer than my penis I am boring. Interesting.

True. And to be completely honest you might seem a little boring to those women so you probably aren't anymore of a match to them than they are to you. The goal of dating is to find people you enjoy being around rather you enjoy bringing up sex early and often or holding off on it for awhile.

I think you are making the right decision to end it until/if he moves out. It's almost like he's telling you what she's saying so you'll end it. It should be really simple for him to tell her: "Yes you saw me with____________ and I'm dating her. I'm not doing anything wrong because we are broken up and I've got an apartment and moving out next month. Are you still wanting to buy me out?" That should be it. It sounds like they're getting back together.

Maybe start having a social life separate from your relationship and stop making sure you're available when it's convenient to him, live your life as if he wasn't part of it, and if he wakes up to himself and rearranges his life, great, if he doesn't he's letting you now how unimportant you are to him. Guys who prioritise their mates over their partner are very suspect in my opinion, no matter how masculine they appear. Especially when they love blokey sports to the point that they can't wait for the next time they get to inhale the smell of the locker room.