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  2. notyouraveragebabe

    do you think he will come back?

    He still hasn’t replied….. its been 6 days
  3. basil67

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    Yes, their previous post was also about what they could get away with while dating the woman he's not dating
  4. ExpatInItaly

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    I’m quite sure it’s not a real post and the OP is having a bit of fun winding up posters, yes.
  5. justwhoiam

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    Are you saying the OP is a troll?
  6. Els

    Seeing friends

    Some context is needed. Do you have kids or are you childfree? When you say you'd like to go out with your friends on weekends, do you mean the whole weekend or just for a Sunday evening (and the rest of the time is free to spend with your wife)? Do you spend at least as much time taking your wife out on dates as you do with your friends?
  7. Mike321

    Seeing friends

    Yes we do regularly do things together. For the most part she is the one choosing what activities we do together and I'm happy with that. I'm getting the impression that people think this is too much. That's really what I'm curious to know
  8. ZA Dater

    Perspective

    Oddly I am actually feeling some degree of confidence. Also because I am working on a new way of looking at this, working because each day is a challenge not to go back to other ways of thinking. The other important thing I am trying to do is to be more open in how I communicate. None of this is easy but each day I am trying.
  9. basil67

    do you think he will come back?

    Sweetie, reflection is a great thing, but the decision is already made
  10. ExpatInItaly

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    Trolls are getting very creative these days. Entertaining read, in any case.
  11. ExpatInItaly

    do you think he will come back?

    This isn't about the dang soup. It's about built-up resentment and a relationship that doesn't work. The Great Soup Event was simply the catalyst to end something that wasn't functional anymore. He was unhappy, you were unhappy. Your words hurt him too much this time, and he's done. But it would have ended anyway. No soup for you.
  12. justwhoiam

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    I haven't read all the posts, but it looks like you have it all figured out from a single point of view. What kind of neurological problem did you have? Is it still there, or has it gone away? Could it come back? Consider the following points: 1. No control over anything. You're being misled if you think you can ask or demand in a D/s setting where you are the sub. You won't be in control. As a submissive, your needs and desires are entirely secondary to your "Domme". A scene is not yours to end, an orgasm is not yours to have, and your body is not yours to control (other than pre-es
  13. justwhoiam

    Should I drop him?

    I've never encountered the notion that men automatically assume women with strong opinions are lesbians. To begin with, there's no indication that SEASON_WINTER was particularly opinionated about anything. If we were to lean into stereotypes, it's often said that many men perceive women in general as having strong opinions. Just ask a married man how often he wins an argument with his wife. That being said, if we're talking stereotypes, typical traits associated with lesbians might include an undercut or short hair styled with gel—think early Justin Bieber—and no makeup, short, unmanicure
  14. Lotsgoingon

    Seeing friends

    Are you sure you want to be married?
  15. Gebidozo

    Seeing friends

    OP, if you rarely take your wife out on dates, but regularly go out with your friends, I can understand why she’d be upset. If, however, you go out with her at least as much as with your friends, regularly take her out to dinners, activities, trips, and so on, then I think she has no reason to oppose your social gatherings.
  16. Judging by what I’ve experienced in my own life, saw in the lives of people close to me, and generally heard about, men usually mature much later than women. Chances are that a 26 year old guy is on about the same level of emotional, mental and spiritual maturity as a 19 year old girl. There is also a good advice concerning age gaps: divide your age by 2 and add 7. You’re just a year younger than the recommended age. I’m very happy with a woman 18 years younger than myself. 48:2=24+6=30, exactly, the same proportion as your case, according to the above formula. I think you shoul
  17. OP, I’ll be blunt with you. It’s unattractive when a person constantly complains about feeling unlovable. It’s unattractive when a person keeps bemoaning some short, fleeting, weird, unsuccessful relationship, heaping unwarranted praise on it and doubting whether they will ever have a good one again. It’s unattractive when a person refers to themselves as good and honest and caring and then keeps asking “what’s wrong with me?”, like a broken record. OP, this is what’s wrong with you. The above. Your attitude. The mental state you’ve gotten yourself into. The negative vibe t
  18. basil67

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    Actually @happyhorizons is not the OP, so even more reason that this is a strange question to ask me.....unless HH and PetrolHead are one and the same???
  19. Gebidozo

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    Precisely. I think everyone is addressing the cheating in the thread, except the OP, who wants to make it all about the dominatrix. The OP believes that if you aren’t caught you aren’t a cheater, so I’m beginning to think that any advice would be pointless to him.
  20. BaileyB

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    basil asked you why you seek the opinion of others and you respond to her question by asking for her opinion… 🤣🤣🤣
  21. notyouraveragebabe

    do you think he will come back?

    Some great questions. I’m reflecting now. But need time to make this decision. A week isn’t enough time.
  22. basil67

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    Each to their own. I am addressing the cheating, not the dominatrix realm
  23. happyhorizons

    Visiting dominatrix while in relationship

    Basil, what is your opinion on the whole dominatrix realm?
  24. So what is your next plan to find love?
  25. notyouraveragebabe

    do you think he will come back?

    Wow. I needed to hear this
  26. 26. Yo has a great amount of life experience what you don’t have. What was he doing with his life , who was he going out with. Can he have a relationship with someone his age. You don’t want a father, daughter relationship. Where he’s in charge, you do what he wants. You have to be your own person,
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