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  2. ExpatInItaly

    Texting/double texting

    I also work a lot. So does my partner. Nobody works so much that they can only manage to meet you after nearly 3 months of chatting. His interest is low, Sparrow. Please don't waste your time like this in the future. If someone can't meet up with you soon after connecting online, rule them out. And certainly don't spend months chatting with them in hopes something will come of it. Double-texting is not the issue here.
  3. sparrowb

    Texting/double texting

    He works a lot in general, not sure didn't ask. haha
  4. I have a friend who left her marriage because she wanted not to be a car pool mom with a travelling for work husband anymore… I would also say, my uncle divorced his wife after 40 some years of marriage… she was abusive towards him, they had nothing in common, they no longer had the same life goals - their marriage should have ended years before but he finally said, I can’t take this anymore and left. It was the best decision that he could have made.
  5. habib4564

    field of love

    i am a student of Bs cybersecurity. I am in love with a girl of Bs Artificial intelligence. I proposed last year and she was alone in a room where i proposed her but she asked me to go out. I didnt took it seriously. And after two to three months i noticed that she is wondering around me. She sometimes made a eye contact with me. so I thought she has started to ike me. after that i made a mistake the mistake was that i talked to her friends on Instagram. But she didnt knew that I proposed her friend due to which i dont know something bad happened after that my friend also talked to the friend
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  7. ExpatInItaly

    Reply or ignore?

    Absolutely ignore. And block. You don't need this person interfering in your life. He wasn't there for you when you needed him, so I don't see why he should have tacit permission to stir you up any further.
  8. ExpatInItaly

    Texting/double texting

    Why did it take so long to meet in person? He was just so busy he couldn't find the time, or?
  9. goldengirls

    Is it selfish of me?

    Just be upfront and honest about what your intentions are and you will be fine. That way they know you aren’t looking for a relationship and you will most likely find another person wanting the same thing. Definitely have to let them know off the bat you just want a FWB and not a relationship. You’d be surprised how many are looking for the same. make sure they are single too! Lots of married people wanting to be fwb and are ok with that bc they are married, but that is so messy.
  10. Daniel95

    I (f24) catfished a married man (m34) while I was in a relationship too

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  11. Gebidozo

    Was I wrong ?

    That’s the thing, in my professional world these lines tend to blur. It’s entirely possible that a young, pretty girl comes to me yelling “oh my God, you’re amazing!”, and it’s purely professional admiration. So if she adds me on social media afterwards, I can expect more messages in the same vein, but most of the time it’s really just liking the stuff I do. I’m used to it and my fiancée is wise enough to understand it. But sometimes it just feels like I could cross the line if I wanted to. Except that I don’t want to, and never will. It’s just a bit confusing sometimes. I’d def
  12. Gebidozo

    Was I wrong ?

    Oh, yeah, if there’s a flirtatious vibe I nip it in the bud. But most of the times it’s sort of borderline, if you know what I mean. Nothing openly flirtatious on their part, just chatting, but who knows. They would often post comments such as “Your fiancée is so beautiful! Lovely couple!”, so I’m thinking, they can’t possibly want something from me if they are happy to see me happy with my lady, right? Maybe they just like the stuff I do. And I am sort of vain, I like having fans, wouldn’t want to lose or alienate them. It’s sometimes such a fine line between liking my work and liking me
  13. Cclhxx

    Reply or ignore?

    After half a year, my ex randomly texted me today, telling me he had a bad dream involving me and instructed me to cancel all my plans until 1 pm. As far as I remember, he rarely dreams. We broke up because he couldn’t cope with my depression following our miscarriage, which was his baby. He blocked me every time I relapsed, yet I always try to contact him. Now that I have let go of everything I have experienced with him. He reached out to me with this kind of message. I wanted to me scold him badly. before when I really needed him, he would leave, now it's only because of his unreas
  14. GNRFan

    Is it selfish of me?

    I have seen societal problems with both genders, hence why I joined and posted this. Eventually when my head space is right I will want a relationship, right now I am seeking something physical. The backlash from my female friends was unexpected, not that I asked them to partake.
  15. NuevoYorko

    Perspective

    Unfortunately, since you absolutely will not grow or learn either, you are pretty much stuck exactly where you are now for another few decades. Unless something moves you to expand your narrow mind along the way. It could happen. But those types of things are more and more difficult to come by as we grow older. Unfortunately we become more ensconced in the primitive form we've been inhabiting for so many years. Often we even become virtual caricatures of ourselves, with emphasis on our most ridiculous and pathetic features.
  16. NuevoYorko

    Is it selfish of me?

    There are societal biases against women who have casual sex, but there is nothing wrong with it. It's your life, your sexuality, your body. Just be safe. And if you get any negative blowback, f*** that. It has nothing to do with you. It's their problem.
  17. GNRFan

    Is it selfish of me?

    Thank you for taking the time to respond. I just think it paints me in a negative light if that makes sense to only be looking for something physical.
  18. Gaeta

    Is it selfish of me?

    I can't think of why it's selfish as long as you and that person have an understanding and no one is misleading the other.
  19. GNRFan

    Is it selfish of me?

    To want a friends with benefits? I really don't want to date right now. I am 2 months post break up from a toxic back and forth relationship. I am usually not into casual sex and I wouldn't even know how to find a FWB. I have gotten a lot of negative feedback from female friends however some of them engage in that behavior. Thoughts? Male Mid 40s.
  20. BaileyB

    What do I do now?

    Have you never had sex before? Is this your first time? I can appreciate that, but how much do you really have in common with a man who is your fathers age? If this becomes an actual relationship, how do you think your friends and family will react? There is lots to think about here before you get in any deeper… Personally, I think there is something really wrong with a 48 year old man who is pursuing a 24 year old young woman. There is a definite difference in experience and that creates an unbalanced power dynamic that really creeps me out. Be very careful here.
  21. basil67

    What do I do now?

    I didn't realise this until I became an older woman, but there's an instinct which seems to arrive where many of us start to want to protect the younger women from the things which happened to us via older men when we were younger. I'm certainly not saying that all older men are bad, but my past contains stuff related older men which from just plain icky to being sexually assaulted as a minor. It's far too easy for an older man to be smooth with a much younger woman. So yeah, while it may be hurtful that many of us get weird about older men with younger women, remember that many of
  22. Yesterday
  23. basil67

    Perspective

    My multi quote is a bit glitchy (or I'm doing it wrong!) so I'm going to do my best >>my ex was wonderfully engaging but as much as I tried to force myself I could never really find her that physically attractive"<< If someone is not beautiful, no matter how much we try, they will not become beautiful - so this is quite normal. However, all the other traits come to the forefront and we fall in love and are sexually attracted to the person, not the skin. I ask you this: If you found a beautiful woman who ticks all the boxes and then she gets old and loses her looks...or
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  25. Sony12

    What do I do now?

    Wow. Have to say you created a clever way of saying it without actually saying it, lol.
  26. BaileyB

    Was I wrong ?

    Your fiancée trusts you to maintain a healthy relationship boundary. That’s a very good thing. The next question becomes - are you able to maintain a healthy relationship boundary? In other words, are you worthy of the trust that your partner has placed in you? To date, the answer is yes. Also a very good thing. What exactly are you chatting about with the women that message you privately? Is it job related or does it veer to more personal discussion. If you are going to message with people online, I would set the boundary that it’s ok to chat with people about work but when the conv
  27. NuevoYorko

    Perspective

    No, no one is here to mock you for your past trauma. It might behoove you to realize that you're talking to a vast number of folks here you know NOTHING about. I guarantee that there are many who have significant traumas of their own that they've been dealing with. Heck. Among the gorgeous women you idolize and the non-beauties who you don't acknowledge are people who have experienced devastating events in their lives as well. Maybe there is some value in looking beyond the surface.
  28. Weezy1973

    Perspective

    @ZA Dater Nobody is going mock you for your past trauma. Most of us suspected you’ve had a tough go of life when you were younger. It explains a lot of your beliefs and worldview. However despite your experiences, your worldview and beliefs when it comes to love and relationships is wrong. I was diagnosed with a severe social anxiety disorder as well as agoraphobia in my mid-30s. Approaching a woman at a party, bar, club or broadly any social gathering was never going to happen. All my romantic encounters were through people I knew (social circle, school, work etc.) and t
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