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Old 1st July 2006, 9:49 PM   #1
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Question How to tell if a guy is a virgin????

I was wondering if there's a specific way of telling or recognizing when a guy is a true virgin (never had any type of sex, no oral, nor anal, nor vaginal).

That would be more interesting when the time comes. I would appreciate the guy to also be a virgin, cuz then we would be beginners at it.
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Old 1st July 2006, 9:59 PM   #2
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If he doesn't have a penis, chances are he's a virgin.
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Old 1st July 2006, 10:03 PM   #3
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In all seriousness...there's no way to tell. You can ask him. His technique (or lack thereof) might give it away. But there isn't any physical tell-tale sign that will let you know that for sure.
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Funny Westernxer...

Asking him will not help as some do lie. One way to really know is to just do it.
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Funny Westernxer...

Asking him will not help as some do lie. One way to really know is to just do it.
Uhm...no. You can't know for sure either by just "doing" it.
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Uhm...no. You can't know for sure either by just "doing" it.
After it is "done" he won't be.
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Old 2nd July 2006, 7:53 AM   #7
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I was wondering if there's a specific way of telling or recognizing when a guy is a true virgin (never had any type of sex, no oral, nor anal, nor vaginal).

That would be more interesting when the time comes. I would appreciate the guy to also be a virgin, cuz then we would be beginners at it.
Play truth and dare ... u do some sexy dare and then ask him , he will tell the truth
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Old 3rd July 2006, 5:44 AM   #8
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when you decide to have sex, it should be with someone you trust to tell you the truth about a question like this.
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Old 9th July 2006, 6:25 PM   #9
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I read somewhere there is a way to tell, dunno if this is much helpful. At a virgin man, the foreskin is not off the dick head. At the first sexual contact this foreskin goes down the dick head. Then you are not virgin any more.
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Old 9th July 2006, 7:57 PM   #10
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LMAO....only if he lost his virginity to a lawnmower, sweetie.

You described circumcision, not sex. You seem like a nice girl...wait a few YEARS before even considering having sex. You won't regret it.
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I read somewhere there is a way to tell, dunno if this is much helpful. At a virgin man, the foreskin is not off the dick head. At the first sexual contact this foreskin goes down the dick head. Then you are not virgin any more.
I understand what you mean, but this is not proof. A man can move the foreskin over manually, without vaginal contact.

Your best bet is to talk about virinity in a "no big deal" way. It's shameful for guys to be virgins in some cultures, so approach it in a delicate way.
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Old 16th July 2006, 8:04 PM   #12
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theres no way other than to ask him. and for everyone who says he might lie, if you dont know him well enough to know whether he's trustworthy or not and if you dont truly know you can trust his answer, you have no business having sex with him.
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Old 18th July 2006, 2:56 AM   #13
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I'm sorry there is no way to tell. What if he rubbed his naked penis against a girl's body? There is no way you'll know whether it's been in a vagina if that's what you're trying to find out. Hell I wasn't even sure if I was a virgin the first time I had real sex
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Old 18th July 2006, 3:16 AM   #14
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If he doesn't have a penis, chances are he's a virgin.
iv'e been to some places where some of the guys no longer have penises, and trust me those guys weren't virgins
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