CapitalSteeze47 Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 I messed up my chance to be with this cute girl back in community college. I'm positive she was interested since the first time i lay eyes on her, and she respond with behaviors such as she would gaze to my eyes, looking down when we gaze, giving smirks, looking from afar, and acting funny with a friend when she saw me. I came out of a class one time and we both just look at each other until she turn to the other side of the hall. Other times she would look at me before I enter the classroom so I say she found me attractive at least. I made her wait for a year to ask her out cause I'm shy. As time went by she acted cold and distant I guess tried to move on. Found her on snapchat and ask her to hangout during the summer, I know that's a cowardly way and many girl prefer face to face but had no other choice. She replied with "awe I'm sorry but I honestly have a boyfriend right now". I felt great to finally ask her out but there was no indication of a guy on her social media on any platform. So i took it as no more interested in me and move on. I transfer to a college and she also attends there and started acting like she hates me, behavior such as acting like I don't exist when I'm walking face to face towards her. Other times she will glance at me with a neutral face. The last time I seen her she look at me and look at the floor with a neutral face. She did try and text me through snapchat since it gives a notification when someone wants to chat with you but decided not to send anything. I doubt it was an accident since we had not chat since May. I always see her alone around campus and she always acts weird around me so I'm confused. Is it possible to re-attract interest? We never spoke face to face should I start now? Should I ignore her completely? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 Now, why would you ask someone out who acts like she hates you? If she was interested and didn't have a boyfriend, don't you think she would have been able to find you if she had wanted to? I mean, she's just as capable of it as you are. If she was single and wanting to go out with you, she wouldn't be acting like she hates you. She would be smiling and saying hi. Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted January 9, 2017 Share Posted January 9, 2017 She tried to contact you but you ignored her. What do you expect her to do? She is just treating you the same as you have treated her. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrlonelyone Posted January 10, 2017 Share Posted January 10, 2017 Just try talking to her and see what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
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