yes Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 why do they all either wanna see u like every day and just won't give u any room, or only wanna see u once in a couple months? where did the normal seeing someone once in 1-2 weeks go??? ahh! i feel like a pusher-puller...: some i have to keep pushing away, some i cannot pull back ... what the hell... does it depend on the guy or on my behavior w/ him? -yes Link to post Share on other sites
chc-cl1 Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 why do they all either wanna see u like every day and just won't give u any room, or only wanna see u once in a couple months? where did the normal seeing someone once in 1-2 weeks go??? ahh! i feel like a pusher-puller...: some i have to keep pushing away, some i cannot pull back ... what the hell... does it depend on the guy or on my behavior w/ him? -yes I think it depends on a combination of both the guy you are with and your behaviour. Why don't you just tell the guy you are with 'hey, can we see each other less/more because...' and explain to them that you've been feeling like a pusher-puller. If they really like you, they'll understand! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 There are many thousands of varieties of guys. How often they want to see you, what they want to do when they see you, how they treat you when they see you, how long they want to see you before they break up, how long they want to see you before they ask for sex, how long they want to see you before getting engaged, etc., depends on their maturity level, financial stability, life experiences, etc. At different stages of your life, you will meet guys looking for different things and behaving differently. No matter what your age, there are guys out there who will see you over a long period or a short period, whatever span of time suits them. Females go through similar stages. Link to post Share on other sites
Anthony Posted January 21, 2002 Share Posted January 21, 2002 Just to point out that there are just as many types of guys/ men a there are types of girls/ women. does it depend on the guy or on your behavior with him... well yes and no it all depends how you behave and what the guy is like.... most of the time the "desent, normal" guy has no chance against the psychos women/ girls seem to be so "fond" of . My suggestion is try to get to know someone before you get too close to them... think with your head before you act on your heart and so on. good luck. why do they all either wanna see u like every day and just won't give u any room, or only wanna see u once in a couple months? where did the normal seeing someone once in 1-2 weeks go??? ahh! i feel like a pusher-puller...: some i have to keep pushing away, some i cannot pull back ... what the hell... does it depend on the guy or on my behavior w/ him? -yes Link to post Share on other sites
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