Does this girl like me wants to be more than a friend?

[Achilles123]

Hello everyone, this is my first post.

 

I'm 28 yr old, and I am currently seeing a girl, she is 25. We are both expats from same country and live abroad in Germany. So the thing is, it's not really common to meet someone from your home country that often and conversation in your native language feels so much better. We actually met at the gym twice and then had been out twice. We know each other for the last two weeks.

 

I would like to ask for some opinions if you think I have a good change and if you think she sees me as a friend, or possible more and she wants me to make a move? Since she is new here in the city and has not (m)any guy friends.

 

Here is a list of the things which caught my attention:

 

-Actually how we met, I wrote on facebook that I would like to have a gym buddy and she wrote to me.

-She invited me for a walk in park - she asked me very personal questions, about my age, what I do for living, if I plan to stay (live) her for longer time. I also told her that this is where I will go running and she immediately told me she would like to join. She asked me about which music I like. Afterwards we also went for a tea. In the end I texted her I enjoyed it very much and she texted back the same and "see you soon"

-We went out for ice skating, also some other friends joined, she allowed me to use her locker, so we had things together. She complimented me I skate good. At the end people were asking who goes where and in front of me, she lied to them that we go in another direction, and told me secretly that she wants to go alone with me to some other place, without others joining. That really shocked me, because I like her so much and never had similar experience. What does this mean? Some people joined us anyway, on our way out and again she told them that we go somewhere else. She really wanted to get rid of them. Would she do this, if she only saw me as a friend? I also tried to find excuses for them to leave but failed and she was also laughing at my jokes a lot at that time. But she did not reveal our plans to go somewhere else to other friends. On our way home she told me some other guys were hitting on her and that she would never date them because they looks funny. I asked "including me?" and she said, no you are the only one normal. We also took a selfie together (she leaned towards me), when she got home, she immediately asked me to send it to her. She replied with "thanks ;)"

-She is using a lot of "we" mentality, tells me when she has free time and when not and when she goes out with her girl friend.

-She tells me that her parents and coworkers are asking her all the time if she is seeing someone.

-She seems to like that I have a full time job here and a probably a good pay, while she has a part time job atm.

-When I text her, she mostly replies and asks me question back, the weight of conversation is on both sides.

-In the gym she told me that she likes my tattoo and she also wants one and that she likes men who go to the gym. She told me she is so happy she got a fitness partner. After we left, I hugged her.

-I took her out for dinner and asked up front if she allows me to pay - she said yes without thinking. And next time she would pay for a drink or something in return. This means she accepted it as a date, right? We had a nice conversation, again a lot of personal questions. She also showed me her family pictures and pictures of her, also from childhood, on her phone. She talkes about her weight, but she is really skinny-fit. She also asked me if I have any siblings. But no physical contact or holding hands and so on. I did not try anything like that, because I'm a little shy. She asked me if I have seen some movie and that she has to find an english cinema for it. Probably she would like to invite me to a movie? In the end, I escorted her to her station, and she gave me hug (she initiated it) with both arms.

-She doesnt really start texting me that much, but I got her phone number without asking for it.

 

Any comments would be much appreciated!

[preraph]

Please realize that she still doesn't know you well, so she herself may not know if she is interested in more than friendship. But that said, you should ask her if she'd let you take her to a movie or dinner, something obviously date-y. While on the date, do the gentlmanly things like touching her back to guide her through a door or to a chair. See if she seems okay with that or if she kind of pulls back.

 

Also, if you skated, I would think that would be the perfect time to take her hand for at least a moment.

 

She sounds friendly at least!