krizza Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 i am no longer happy with my relationship now. i wish i could break up with him easily without hurting his feelings too much. i know hes deeply in love with me. we're far from each other... i dont say i dont love him anymore but im no longer happy with him... Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 Telling him exactly how you feel is a good start. How else would he know? If you sugar-coat things, he probably won't understand or "get the hint". Unfortunately, in situations such as this, it is best to be brutally honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Fire Inside 29 Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 Yes, I would rather a girl told me the ugly truth,then just pretend to like or love me still.Just as much as I would rather a women told me she faked orgasm with me.As long is it was the truth and not a lie,So BE IT! Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 There is no way to spare his feelings in this sort of situation. Just do it. He'll be hurt. It happens. Life will go on. Be honest and direct. No grey areas. Link to post Share on other sites
EIN Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 Do it upfront, dont email him or talk to him on the phone. Be direct so that you are serious about your feelings. State reasons for your down feelings about him because to just break it up like that would leave him loathing you. If you are willing to go through this, be ready that he might start begging and saying stuff like "I'll change for us" and you start gettin weak and give him another chance so REALLY ACCESS what this relationship means to you. Do you want to end it but still be friends or no more contact with him after this relationship is over. Do think about it before going thru with your plans. Best of Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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