5th July 2002, 5:43 AM
Join Date: Feb 2000
1. "Don't tell me to go and ask him what happened because if i did that he will act all smug that he's affected me and may tease me in front of everyone."
The ONLY way you will ever come close to knowing is by asking the ONLY person in the entire universe, that's from one end of time and space to the other, who knowS the answer to that question. That's the guy himself. Yeppers, he's the ONLY one who has that answer.
I am impressed with your psychic ability of knowing exactly how he will react. If you have this great psychic ability, you should also be able to determine the answer to your question with your incredible clairvoyance.
2. "I would just like to know if anyone has any idea why he acted this way?? I didn't say anything bad about him, treat him bad or indifferently. I was playful and flirtatious and we were getting along perfectly."
How would anybody here know that? We don't even know the guy. If he was right here in this same room with me, standing next to my computer, I wouldn't know he was the guy.
Now if you want some guesses, here goes:
*** He doesn't like you anymore.
*** He's now interested in somebody else.
*** He's been told he has AIDS.
*** He has a severe mood disorder, some other mental problem, low blood sugar, etc.
*** He has a nervous disorder and is too shaken up to ask you out.
3. "He doesn't even have a gf or anything, so it can't be that. And even if he did, I don't see why he had to start ignoring me completely."
Hey, lady, we live in a crazy world. You may as well learn that now. Many people are weird. They don't have to have a reason for doing what they do. Why he started ignoring you probably has absolutely nothing to do with you at all. It's his problem and his loss.
Just accept that he did you a favor. He showed you he isn't the guy for you so now you can forget him and go pursue guys who are very interested in you and have the cojones (courage) to ask you out.
4. "It seemed that we were heading for a beautiful romance. Even my friends noticed and were expecting him to ask me out on a romantic date. What went wrong all of a sudden?"
Nothing went wrong...everything went right, perfectly right. He wasn't the guy for you. The man upstairs shined his bright light upon you and said he was going to spare you great pain and heartbreak by getting this guy out of your life. And he did. You didn't have to go through a lot of crap like others. You are a very lucky lady. You have a friend somewhere in the heavens.
So stop being all disturbed about this. You got lucky. You don't need some complicated, unstable dork in your life to screw it all up so stop wishing he was. That's crazy!!!