[esaul17]

Okay, if I meet a girl in class or something I am too much of a wimp to just up and ask them out right away, or ask for their number either. I also would like to get to know them a bit better before making any obvious attempts to be sure I am into them as well. So I usually ask for an MSN instead as it is non intrusive and doesn't have as strong "I want to ask you for a date" connotations as a phone number (and also I don't have to work up the courage to actually call http://www.lpassociation.com/forums/...ies/tongue.gif).

However, I am just wondering, how much should I talk to someone on MSN? I am also almost always online when not in class too...should I block her or ignore her every once in a while so she doesn't see me sitting online on a Friday night? Should I message her often? Or should I just begin trying to ask for facebooks or something so I can stay in touch with them but not have them see when I am online/offline and such? Any tips?

I'm 18 years old, second year of university.

[MsArtful]

In my opinion, it would be to your advantage to appear less available, if you are always online she will indeed think you spend all your time on the internet... I find myself most attracted to guys when they're "hard to get" if you know what I mean. Don't be impossible to get a hold of, but don't be available all the time either. Therefore, perhaps blocking her sometimes etc etc, may be a good idea.

[Winfield]

Why not ask for their phone number? It doesn't necessarily imply that you intend on asking them out on a date...

Asking for fellow class members' phone numbers may even be helpful, ie, to ask someone when / if you get stuck with coursework off-campus, or miss a lecture, etc...

That way, you won't feel conscientious about appearing online, you can surf to your heart's content without worry, and you'll have their number(s) which you can keep in contact with once in a while (besides, at the very least, you could text them rather than speak to them over the phone)...

And if they don't want to give you their number, then there's your answer!

Make it easy for yourself!

[SuperFantastico]

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