[SixthSt.Girl]

What is a guy thinking when he stares at a woman's body? Not just checking her out, but ogling?

A. He's picturing her naked.

B. He's admiring the shape of her body.

C. He's dreaming about what sex with her would be like.

D. both A. and C.

[stoopid_guy]

I don't ogle bodies much, faces really catch my eye.

If I am looking at her body I could be wondering what she'd feel like in my arms, could be admiring her shape (B) could be admiring her grace and how she moves, could be wondering how soft her skin is and what it would taste like...

[molimo140]

I'm with stoopid_guy on this one.

I've always found faces/hair attractive, and that's usually what I'll be looking at. When I do look at a woman's body, It probably is closest to B. Again with stoopid on this - imagining what it would feel like to hold her.

You're bound to get a whole spread of answers from this - the truth of it is that there are people that fit all of your categories, it's hard/impossible to tell just by looking at someone.

[SixthSt.Girl]

I'm just asking in general, but the situation that made me bring it up was a neighbor at my old apartment complex (we still run into each other because I'm having to go over there occasionally). We met at the pool and he was bold enough to tell me right off that he thought I was cute, and he was looking at my face when he told me this (that's where his attention is usually focused). But, the other day when he thought I wasn't looking, I caught him staring at my body. His eyes eventually met mine and he acted like he hadn't been caught. This of course hasn't been the first time I've been looked at like this, though I tend to dress more conservatively now so it doesn't happen quite as often. Made me wonder what guys are thinking when this occurs, since women don't do it.

[SixthSt.Girl]

Another question - do guys do this sub-consciously, like maybe they don't realize they're doing it? I can't believe that, not when it lasts for more than a few seconds. I will look at a guy who I think is hot, but I'm able to keep it under control. I think I'm too focused to let my eyes wander (though maybe sometimes I do, and am just not aware of it??).

[stoopid_guy]

Originally Posted by SixthSt.Girl

Another question - do guys do this sub-consciously, like maybe they don't realize they're doing it? I can't believe that, not when it lasts for more than a few seconds. I will look at a guy who I think is hot, but I'm able to keep it under control. I think I'm too focused to let my eyes wander (though maybe sometimes I do, and am just not aware of it??).

Well, your eyes have to point somewhere, they just wander to the most interesting view in the vicinity.

Most guys realize a lady may take it as rude though, so we don't do it as much when you're looking.

[pricillia]

Originally Posted by stoopid_guy

I don't ogle bodies much, faces really catch my eye.

If I am looking at her body I could be wondering what she'd feel like in my arms, could be admiring her shape (B) could be admiring her grace and how she moves, could be wondering how soft her skin is and what it would taste like...

that was nice.

[alphamale]

I would say all of the above (A+B+C)