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Old 20th September 2006, 7:36 AM   #1
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Decision made...

Well all i trust that you are doing better and better by the second.

I have made up my mind Im no longer going to say in South Africa and hop for things to work with my ex fiance. Im out of here. Im leaving for a job in the UK.

I resigned from work last friday but need to work till the end of next month then Im out of here.

Phew it was a long hard decision to make but its been made and Im felling pretty good about it. Hard to walk away but when I get the distance im running for the hills.

Good luck all.
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Old 20th September 2006, 2:48 PM   #2
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Ruff Ryder,

I'm glad to hear you have come to a final decision. A decision you made on your own.

In your other thread, you were so determined to stay and fight for your ex fiance. There seemed to be so much bright confidence, and hope.

You've made up your mind now, and hopefully it will be for the better. That's all that matters.

Best of luck!

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Old 23rd September 2006, 2:01 PM   #3
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Well that confidence hope and all that is still there it will always be there just never for her again. Its who I am and for the next girl it will be there with just as much passion. The big diffrence now is I know what I want and I learnt my lesson and Ive take that foward to have a much better more furfilling relationship with the next girl...

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Old 23rd September 2006, 2:42 PM   #4
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Thumbs up Ruff Ryder

Good luck to you! I know its a change, but sometimes when I make up my mind that is it too.

Enjoy your journey!
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