Do you think that two people in a relationship have different levels of love ??? ie one can love more than the other - and if that is true - do you think that thats okay ??

[Tony T]

Yes. And not only is it OK, but there's nothing at all you can do about it. There is really no way of measuring the depth or strength of one's feelings but, more often than not, one member of the relationship can feel the other cares more...or less.

As long as both parties are happy and fulfilled, that's all that matters. I think that different people have varied capacities for loving. There are some who for various reasons are incapable of tremendous depth of feelings. Perhaps this is due to previous hurt, or just the way they are.