Okay I rencently was told that my husband of 7 years cheated on me. We have two children 6 and 4. There is not one instance but 4. No, he hasnt admitted to any infiedlties but something tells me these situations arent right. The first instance was a year ago when I was out of town he had my friens sister over at my house until 2 am in the morning. I felt uneasy about this so I called her and she told me that her and my husband had had oral sex but not actual intercourse of course he denies this she also told me that my husband had sex with my best friend (her sister) several times he also denies this. Keep in mind that my husband introduced me to this girl he had known her from elementary school. Although they didnt advise me that they had had sex in high school and he had taken her virginty. My former best friends ex tells me that one time he came home early and that my husband we there inside the house witht he door locked and she only had a robe on. Also, quite rencently i found several girls phones number on my cell phone bill when I confronted my husband he told me it was for work. What kind of coworker do you call at 10:30pm on a Friday? This was a night that he had told me he went out with his buddies and went to the bowling alley and actually went to some girls house party. Who he was sharing emails with stating "I guess Ill stop pushing the issue with you I guess im not the man for you" Also told her he was mad she had told everyone that he was married. There were many emails and phone conversations after that but he destoyed the rest of the evidence before I was ablr to see. Also another girls in his phone who I am concerned about. am I overreacting or should I leave? I was ging to leave when I found all the out but started crying when I went walk out. THings have been different recently.

[Pink Amulet]

OMG! Leave this man. Instantly. If not sooner.

[Adunaphel]

Leave him. Do not procrastinate.
Do not try to find excuses for his behaviour.

I felt uneasy about this so I called her and she told me that her and my husband had had oral sex but not actual intercourse of course he denies this she also told me that my husband had sex with my best friend (her sister) several times he also denies this.

Why did she tell this to you?
She thought that you should know? Was she trying to break you up?

I don't think that she was lying, but even if she had been lying, why would your former best friend's ex tell you such a thing?

My former best friends ex tells me that one time he came home early and that my husband we there inside the house witht he door locked and she only had a robe on.

And you have plenty of other evidence that he is cheating.

And he's still lying.

Please start filing for divorce and absolutely stop having sex with him and get checked for STDs as soon as possible.

[luvstarved]

Absolutely. Get yourself out of this. Now.

[Gunny376]

Rats know when to get off of a sinking ship!

You deserve so much more than this!

He is so dis-respecting you and your love!