[BUTAFLY]

I saw my ex today. Its been about a month r & I found myself wishing bad things apon him. I have waited for Karma, God,to serve him his just dues but nothing. I am so tired of waiting...I had bad thought run through my mind after seeing him and I feel kinda guilty but I do wish hurtful things upon him. Is this bad? Do any of you wish bad things upon someone?...did it come true? did you regrete it if it did?

[SW2408]

I am sorry for your hurt. I would never wish bad things upon anyone. What I do wish for is the other person to move on and find their own happiness. I do wish the same for myself. I also do know there is a lesson to be learned from a breakup.

Why would you want someone else to hurt? Because you do? How selfish is that? The faster and easier you get thru the pain (deal with it not just shove it away somewhere) you will start to heal and from there you will begin to wish for better things to come.

Good Luck,
Shari

[ZICKAR]

You can wish all the bad thoughts you want so what
Never heard of anyone get killed by a bad thought...So what the hell think all the bad thoughts you want and remember..........have fun

[BUTAFLY]

Originally Posted by ZICKAR

You can wish all the bad thoughts you want so what
Never heard of anyone get killed by a bad thought...So what the hell think all the bad thoughts you want and remember..........have fun

Although I truly don't normally do wish bad things on people but he diserves it. but nothing but good is coming his way, new job promotion, new truck, won a work raffle; who the hell wins these things! you know the kind. You fill out a form and put it into a box never to hear from them again and you never hear of anyone winning the damn thing and low and behold he wins....I'll be a money's uncle! He just got back from a cruise with his wife and if I hear one more F'ing story about how lovely it was I will bloody scream!!!!


He dated me for 7 months, I fell deep in love, he told me he wanted to get married. We browsed catalogs for rings, looked a place to move together, I met his family and friends....I was one cloud nine. Then one day a coworker of mine informed me that my bf was getting married in a few days I thought there was some mistake or cruel joke, but turned out it was true.

I'm sorry but he doesn't deserve any of this good fortune.

[superconductor]

Originally Posted by BUTAFLY

...one day a coworker of mine informed me that my bf was getting married in a few days...

See? It worked. Channelling all that negativity towards him, and now he'll be saddled with a wife and, likely, a divorce settlement.

Karma. It's a bitch, ain't it?

[BUTAFLY]

Originally Posted by superconductor

See? It worked. Channelling all that negativity towards him, and now he'll be saddled with a wife and, likely, a divorce settlement.

Karma. It's a bitch, ain't it?

He was engaged WHILE we were dating, while we were looking for a place of our own, while we were shopping for wedding rings. He had no intention of any of that with me because he was scheduled to get married in Aruba in 6 days . MY problem is Karma is not a bitch, more like a sweet ol' lady giving candy to a F'ing predetor. I am fed up on waiting, fed up on watching good things come by him. ARRGGG!!!!!!! Divorce? No she is just as bad...she fought long and hard for him and she got him. Llike attracts like I guess.