Hi all,
I need a little bit of help to get me through this, my girlfriend and i have been dating for not a long time, about 4 months now - i love her to death and i couldn't imagine my life without her, she has influenced me greatly and has helped me become more responsible, both taking better care of myself and taking care of her. The past week, she went to a party, and i was working a bit late, so was unable to attend. In the middle of the night, i got a phone call from her, immediately my heart sank, cause from the tone of her voice, i knew something was up. She told me that another guy had kissed her
. She explained the situation to me, but sounded a bit, unsure at times. It started off as them meeting, talking and apparently 'just' being friends. My girlfriend is not a heavy drinker, i recall her having a lot of self control at most parties, but she told me that the guy had bet her if 'his' nfl team won, then she would have to kiss him. She told me that she didn't really take it seriously but at the same time i don't think she reinforced a 'No'. Worst comes to worse, his team does win, and you can guess what happened next. She told me that HE had kissed her, and that she 'tried' to stop him but couldn't, i had a few friends there that brought her out after what happened. She called me and we had a talk. I was so angry and heartbroken, and i really did not know how to react. She kept apologizing but still i couldn't get a grip on myself, it was the first time she had gone to a party without me, and this happened straight off... I love her soo much, and i can't understand why this happened. Up till now, i have recalled the moments in my head, and are very disturbing. Some of the friends at the party say that she played along and didn't really fight back. I don't know who to believe now, and i find it really hard to trust her. Its stupid that people who hand their relationships on a thread, just to have some fun... Plz help, i don't know what to think or who to trust, and theres a feeling in my gut which just won't settle. I am back with her now, on and off, she does seem to love me, but whos to know this won't happen again, i really can't handle the pain a second time.
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