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Friends and Lovers Progressing into "Friends with benefits" and beyond: When platonic relationships become more intimate.

Old 16th August 2006, 11:49 PM   #1
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more than friendship

i have been friends with this girl for like 2 years, she liked me about a year ago but i told her i just wanted to be friends. now we are really good friends, but im starting to like her alot but i dont know how she feels about me. she constantly sends me mixed signals like she jokingly makes fun of me and stuff but she calls me cute. she gets mad if i dont call her but other times i call her and she acts like she doesnt want to talk to me. she will call me and want to hangout but then other times i call her wanting to do something and she acts like she doesnt have time for me. i cant tell if she doesnt like me or if shes just playing hard to get. advice?
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Old 17th August 2006, 9:45 AM   #2
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Ask her to sit down and talk to you about it. Open up and be honest with her. As embarassing as it is to break down and be the one to speak first, sometimes you have to take the risk if they are worth that much to you.
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