My husband and I have been seperated for two years. I found out he was having an affair for for almost five years with an old girlfriend. Last year my job asked me to move to the east coast to work on a asignment for two years. I fly back home every other weekend.
After two weeks of moving here, I meet a really cute guy. We were both taken by each others smile...We have been seeing each other on the DL because he works at the same job as I do. We are both from the town and move here to work for two years. We enjoy each others company very much. We go shopping together, dinner, walks on the beach, or even dancing....
We have done alot with each other. Sometimes we are alone and sometimes we hang with other friends from the job. The sex is very passionate and damn good!!!! He has a girlfriend back home who he lives with so I try not to let my feeling get to deep...I feel that he is feeling the same way...We have been seeing each other since Jan. We have so much in common and we think and feel the same way about alot of things in life...
I feel that he could be my soulmate... I am really, truley in love with him but I would never, ever tell him this because it would not be right since I am working on my divorce and he has a girlfriend....I know I walking a thin line. What do you think?
Bluechocolate, I believe you are right! He has hinted at getting to know each other better before. I believe he is very confused at what he wants. I know for a fact that he was having issues with his girlfriend before moving here. She has only been here three times since Jan. He does not go home very often.
Two months ago, I did not hear from him for about a couple of weeks and he seemed as if he was ignoring me. He told that was not the case but he was going through somethings and needed to take a step back and analyze things. He said for the first time to me that things are not working out for them two.
But you are right! It all boils down to that I am the other woman and I will probably be the one to get burned. I never thought I would have found myself in the situation.
Wait a second, this guy may be your soul mate and you're afraid to discuss this with him? Does that make sense? A soul mate should the one you can discuss this very topic with. Look at it this way, if he is not your soul mate, don't you want to know? Or are you in it just for the hot sex, etc? If so, say nothing and keep status quo. Otherwise, figure it out. If you move on well, you move on.
Why is everyone so hung up on saying I love you? I say it when I know and do not question it when I hear it. I don't necessarily associate things like "soul mate" and "forever" with the phrase. Do others?
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