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Would you have acted the same way?
I know I have written my story here before, but I would really like some input as to how others would have acted in my situation. My ex gf and I got back together in January after she had left me two years earlier for her ex who was in prison at the time. Now the time that we were together the second time she had a friend who was an ex booty call. She talked to him frequently on the phone and would hang out with him going to bars, the park, playing cards when I wasnt around. Now if she had left you two years earllier for another man and then was hanging out with ex flings while she was with you, would stuff like this put you on edge? We did end up breaking up becasue I was always on edge over things like this. I just felt like she should have had more understanding towards me to not push my buttons after what she had done. The thing that reallly set me off was the day she agreed for him to come over to our house and shower when I wasnt there. She told me that I should just deal with it and that I had two years to get over her leaving me for another man. I would have dealt with it so much better if she just would have respected my feelings more that she did. She would also go out to the bars till 4 am sometimes and she said oh it was just three or four times. I wasnt trying to control her I was just trying to make her understand that my trust was already fragile from what she had done in the past and she didnt seem to give much care about it. So I gave it back to her and I treated her the way she should have been and that is like crap. I think that you get what you give. She left me bacasue I was an ahole and I am just wondering if you would have felt the same way that I did. Would stuff like this have pissed you off the way it did to me?
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