[Confuggled_one]

So,
me and my (ex) gf have been going out for an year. we have had many fights and i had to lie to her about many things. however, recently i have changed, and i really do not lie anymore. i was talking to a friend two days ago and i told her that i lied to my ex and that i was really wrong. but she said that my ex treated me really bad and that i should just leave her. but i did not say anything negative about my ex whatsoever. now my ex thinks ive been telling the world **** about her, and that im a liar again. i dont really care because i know i wasnt lying. however, i dont want her to continue to think that i am a liar. i called her and left her a message.. telling her we should not drag other people into this problem and that we shoudl solve it ourselves.. i just want a peaceful ending and that i hope she can return my call. do you guys think i should keep calling until she calls back.. or just let it be?

thamks

[Confuggled_one]

sorry, i forgot to mention that the lies were not lies about cheating or anything. they were only about how friends disliked her.. and that was what i lied about.

[Keltie]

The biggest problem is with trust. That's the basis of relationships. I'd say let it be and let it work it out for a while. If you keep calling it's like fuel to the fire.

[Confuggled_one]

okay. thank you for your respond. i will try to keep it cool and live my life. it's just that it's very frustrating because i really wasnt lying right now and im still labelled as one.