[jewels4300]

My husband and I have been married for a little more than 8 yrs. To make a long story short he has been in contact with another woman for about a month now and just about 2 1/2 wks ago sprung on me that he wanted a divorce. I had no idea about this other woman until that time. Well he is contact with her on a daily basis and he just moved out of our house 2 days ago. Our agreement is that I have the children ages 4 1/2 and 6 during the week and he has them on the weekends.

Well when we made this agreement I made it very clear that the weekends were to be for him and the children and not him and 'her' and the children and he said that was fine. Well today he tells me that he doesn't want me to get mad or worry about how ours boys will take it or react to this other woman. We aren't even divorced yet, I don't want them to be involved with her, especially not now, this is all too fresh for them as it is and he says he doesn't care what I think that he's gonna have her there if he wants to while the boys are there. What can I do? How can I talk him out of this right now?

In a few months maybe, but this is not even a month old in their young minds and I think this other woman is gonna do nothing more than confuse them more than they could deal with. Please any insight or anything from someone who has been through this or is going through this, I'm ready to pull my hair out of my head!