[mountainsurfer]

Hi There, I asked a acquaintance of a friend who I met once before out to a game. We had a great time and got some food n' drinks after. One thing led to another and she ended up spending the night. My intent was just to have a good time which we both did but that's how it ended up. Couple days later she had to leave town for work. I left her a message wishing her a good trip. When she got back we made plans but they feel through as she was running 2hrs late, she said we should get drinks that week.

The next week I asked her out for drinks but she was busy. She never really counter with her own offer. It's been 3weeks now and I guess i'm stuck on not really knowing what to do. One part of me thinks, I overcontacted her right away even though I didn't real contact her that much. The other part thinks she's embarassed about what happened and doesn't want to meet again. Another part of me thinks she has no interest. I'm not sure what's going on..... any advice would be appreciated.

Seems to be such a fine line between playing hard to get and contacting people just the right amount of time. It's maddening. We had a really good time that night. Not sure if I should move on or keep trying.

[rina_r]

Ok, I am a girl. There is no such thing for me as overcontacting if I like the person. And i would not be embarassed about the situation. What does she do? You may wait some time but if it continues you can either drop the idea of going out with her or ask her straight whether she is interested at all.