[Lollie72]

Hi,

Coping, I'm trying, my soon to be x, is a real jerk and I go from outraged at his behaviour to sad and deseprately seeking a quick divorce-even if he gets away with paying very little alimony. He's this twisted guy who keeps saying I did it all for you baby, it was what I though you wanted. He makes up what I'm thinking, my motives, and then acts in revenge for some made up motive to some neutral behaviour or word I said. I am still sickened by any contact he tries to have with me. He couldn't admit it was his decision to file for the dissolution-he's still I though I was doing what I wanted. I cannot explain such a man besides he is like a cop who shoots and asks questions later(after the bodies are cold and he's committed marriage-murder). He made so many decisions and then guilt tripped me into doing these decisions, going on vacations he wanted...running out debt up in the clouds. Now were fighting over his debt and my ruined credit, the credit he put me on his cards to supposedly, "do what I want and increase my credit score!" I feel like I'm trying to run away from some stray four year old child on a street and he won't quit clinging and having fits...rurrrrrrr....

[In Sync]

Sorry that you are being put through the mill by this loser. From the sound of things it's better that you are getting away from him. Cut this anchor from around your neck and live again!!!!