We have been together for about 18 months, his wife is very suspicious. He tells me he doesn't want her to find out because he knows he will get his walking papers, yet he still continues and wants to see me. Does he want to get caught? I don't understand!

[mopar crazy]

Your MM is a typical cake eater. He wants you BUT he wants his W also.

I don't think he wants to get caught b/c he said if he did he was sure his W would leave him and he doesn't want that. He wants to continue to have the A w/ you but he also doesn't want his W to find out b/c if she does, he'll be out the door. JMO.

[LucreziaBorgia]

He probably just has this idea that he's gotten away with it long enough that he can continue to get away with it. I expect he thinks his W has no way of getting concrete proof of the A and gaslights her knowing that it works in his favor. For every increasing increment of suspicion she has, he is able to ramp up his lies/gaslighting that much more. Has nothing to do with wanting to get caught, and everything to do with cramming his piehole with more and more cake.

[Walking away]

I couldn't agree with these ladies more.

[FredTravels]

and everything to do with cramming his piehole

Wait, I am confused, who is having their piehole crammed?

Originally Posted by LucreziaBorgia

Has nothing to do with wanting to get caught, and everything to do with cramming his piehole with more and more cake.

You are right he does love his cake, as do I.

Originally Posted by Guest

We have been together for about 18 months, his wife is very suspicious. He tells me he doesn't want her to find out because he knows he will get his walking papers, yet he still continues and wants to see me. Does he want to get caught? I don't understand!

sorry but if it was you well you let your husband do it to you
like you and him doing it to her ?