[Tony T]

I appreciate people's faith in me but it is not in the spirit of this forum to single me, or anyone else out, for advice unless there has been an ongoing exchange which began from a random post.

Please do not specifically ask for my advice. I find what others have to say is often more reasonable and valueable than my own postings. I learn from them.

I am also at a loss because I am a strict tell-it-like-it-is person. I can't imagine people being gluttons for the punishment and realism I can dish out.

So to those who posts here, please open your issues out to everyone. I usually put my two cents in if the post is of a reasonable size and I can understand it. You don't really have to ask.

Love is complicated. Getting many varied opinions and diverse advice is truly important in any love situation. Again, there are lots of people here who can give priceless information based on their personal experiences and outcomes.