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Old 13th July 2006, 2:52 AM   #1
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from hookup back to friend?

Ok, so I've been hanging out with this really cool girl for about a week now, and everything was going great until sunday, when she made a move and we ended up having sex. Now the thing is I would much rather have her as a friend than a hookup, she works across the street from where I do and I would like to avoid drama. She made plans to go stay at a hotel on friday night with her cousin and her cousin's bf. I don't want to cancel the plans because it would totally mess up her night but I want to go back to being friends, is there any way to do this??
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Old 15th July 2006, 3:45 PM   #2
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but I want to go back to being friends, is there any way to do this??
Yeah tell her!

If it was just a one off hook up there will be no hard feelings, If she feels something a bit more then it's only fair to let her know straight off. If she is happy to go back to just friends then thats all good, if not then you guys have some things to discuss.

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Old 16th July 2006, 6:51 PM   #3
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Yeah, if theres one thing for sure, if the night was good (in her eyes) she will be asking you lot of questions why. Nobody likes rejection. I would have some answers ready!
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