I just found out that my husband has cheated on me with his baby mama and now she is pregnant with their second child, and now he is going to have four children (he has two by me). I know that he only slept with her twice, but I don't know how I can ever trust him again when he goes to see his children. I know that I can't be over there with him when he goes to see them because she will be their and she doesn't want them around me.
I don't know how we are going to work things out because he is in Korea. I know I want to work things out with him because he actually broke down and cried in front of me for the first time since we have been together. He wants me to come to Korea and see him so we can be face to face, but I know we can't work it out in two weeks. I told him that I will truly know that he wants to work things out when he comes back home and has to face his demons head on. I love him and always will love him no matter what the outcome.

Is their anyone out there in a similar situation that has any advice?

[Blind Illusion]

I'm not in a similar situation but I do want to suggest this:

If you do work things out with him, I don't see why he can't see his other children WITH YOU. He doesn't need to be socializing at the house alone under the guise of visiting his children. Many men, pick up their children and see them without the other parent present. You have children also. Take them all to the zoo or something.

Another thing--don't let husband go off with the line of thinking about how he only slept with her twice. Even if that is the absolute truth, you need to remind him that is two times too many for your liking and acceptance.