My boyfriend andI of 4.5 years just broke up. The break up took about a month to fully go through there was a lot of fighthing and making up and hooking up , untill now where we have not seen each other for two weeks. We ended on good terms stating that it may be better to be apart that we still love each other and maybe in the future could be friends yet that as of right now were to emotional to hang out. So any way we went no contact for about two daysuntill he got into a motorcycle accident. He calledme at one a.m right after the accident to tell me he was hurt and scared. I then didnt hear from him fortwo days untill he called me back. He sounded ok and was back at work ( the accient was minor, mainly road rash no broken bones) when we talked it was obvious we both did not want to hang up. The we didnt talk for two days, but yesterday on the 4th of july i texted him happy fourth. one min later he called having nothing to say just chit chat about our past few days and such. He also told me that he went to the each the day before with two girls that we are both friends with. I dont know them well enogh for details but know that at one point in time both were interested in him. Im glad he s up front and honest to meabout who he is with but obviously hurt as to the fact hes with other women. but anyway i am having fun being single but know he is the guy for me. im truly not attracted or interested in other men. im not laying in bed crying o er him but i am depressed and want him back. I wont call him i wait for him to call me and so far he has been. I just need help in knowing how to win him back or attempt to i know the geeling is still there and i now see it stronger then ever i would spend the rest of my life with this man. I dont cry or sob to him telling him i need him and want him back i just have chill and cool convos with him when we talk but i need more advice. Has anyone been through this ? I ant him back so bad I love him with all my heart ut need the right method to get him where i need him

[BatteredByLove]

I dont have much time to talk, but keep NC, whenever he calls, dont pick up, make him WANT you, but since ya'll ended up in good terms, then ya'll will probably have a chance, but read other posts on thi forum, NC is the best.