[Bastion]

Ok....I'll start from the beginning, there is this girl i have a huge crush on and i have had it for alittle over 6 months now, we went to prom together, i though she was sending me hint that she also had the same feelings for me, little did i know i was wrong, i asked a friend(in our group of friends) and she told me news that hit me like a ton a bricks, i was told she was a lesbian. I was deviastated, i didn't know what to say or do, and everything i thought was nothing. her advice to me was just to tell her how i feel and see how it goes from there, at first i thought i could be able to change the way she feels about guys, but i soon learned that it would be worng to do so. You may say don't tell her how you feel because it will change everything and she will never talk to you again, i'll add that she is the type of person that will never do that, she's too nice.

Any help will be appreacited

[jhurtinct]

bastion=
this to shall pass.

I would try and find out for myself but without making anyone feel uncomfortable and if that is the case let it go and you will get over this crush hopefully with a great friend in the end. As soon as you tell her how you feel it will change things between you. especially if what you heard is ture and she only looks to you as a friend.

[Bastion]

Well....I told her how i felt about her...and i'm not sure how she felt about the situation, she said "if you were expecting a date them i'm sorry" but i wasn't and i told her that, i said i want to get to know you better, she said "Well, just see how it goes?", we are starting to hang out alot more often and talk alot more. I have a feeling my "friend" lied to me about her, but i''m still not sure about it