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Old 1st July 2006, 9:25 AM   #1
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Best friends ex wife?

Whats up all, long time no post.

Where to start this one? Im 25 single no kids. My best mate is 32 divorced (in the process still) with 2 kids. His ex wife is 30 kinds and super hot 10/10 hot. Nothing really happened between us other than loads of talking till 6 in the morning and some kissing here and there.

I said it couldnt continue till he knew. She told him (I wanted to but she did it all the same) She falling for me and I cant take the fact that this is hurting him even if he says its ok I know its not.

I had to stop it today, she is broken he isnt talikngto me right now (told him that its not happening with his ex)

WHAT THE F*%K was I thinking? Anyone been there or even simlar? Maybe Jerry Springer is the way to go ahahahahah
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Old 1st July 2006, 10:19 AM   #2
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Your best friend knows nothing of this?

If not, I would say it is best to keep it that way... I am usually one for getting everything out in the open but I just don't see a reason in this situation...

If it was just some flirting and a kiss here and there (and all of this happened outside their marriage) then I think it is best left here. Just move on and try and keep your distance from this woman. She was using you for comfort and affection in a desperate time. Now it is time to let her go.
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Old 1st July 2006, 10:23 AM   #3
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Ever hear the expression "Don't sh*t where you eat?"
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Old 4th July 2006, 8:11 AM   #4
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Whats up all, long time no post.

Where to start this one? Im 25 single no kids. My best mate is 32 divorced (in the process still) with 2 kids. His ex wife is 30 kinds and super hot 10/10 hot. Nothing really happened between us other than loads of talking till 6 in the morning and some kissing here and there.

I said it couldnt continue till he knew. She told him (I wanted to but she did it all the same) She falling for me and I cant take the fact that this is hurting him even if he says its ok I know its not.

I had to stop it today, she is broken he isnt talikngto me right now (told him that its not happening with his ex)

WHAT THE F*%K was I thinking? Anyone been there or even simlar? Maybe Jerry Springer is the way to go ahahahahah
I think you pretty much summed it up. I don't have a lot to add. Unless your best friend is 110% ok with it, you should leave it alone. He is your best friend, and there are kids involved.
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