[the observer]

ok guys here is the deal...my gf dump me and pursue relationship for another guy..well like many tread starters here...ive been a good bf to her.....

its been almost a month since we last see each other

the last dramatic moment that happened to us and our last meeting is that she said that she still very much inlove with me and she is crying
and we kiss so pationately so i thought this will be the time atlast we can get back togeteher again

but when i said that i love her too and show to her that i still welcome her with open arms she suddenly change her attitude ..so i push to get us back togetehr and she pulls even more....she said the relationship is too late to be revive because i myt not forgive her or anything and never forget all the things that shed done...i did nc for almost 2 weeks..its been o month since we last met and its been 2 weeks sonce we spoke....and one day when i log in to my ym ,she is there..at first i ignore here..then she suddenly im me..asking how i am..ive been polite and all..try to avoid the break up matters deep relationship talk and try to push the coneversation to other things like the dogs that i give to her or about work and stuff...and she suddenly ask if i have som1 new..i said lets not talk about those kind of stuff..
HER:what is wrong its not a bad thing to talk about it.
ME:there is no such thing as bad to talk about..
(suddenly my boss calls me so i have to say bye)
ME:ey got to go my boss is calling me
ME:TAKE CARE
HER:take care too
HER:I miss you soooooooooo much
(i log off,but i dont think she received the message that i log off so she continue typing...and her last message became offline messages)
HER:I feel so ashamed to what ive done to you...

So i just want to ask what is in her mind right now?..
is she thinking to getting back again?
or she miss me and starting to see my value and want us to get back togeether but still doubtful to me because it might gamble her new realtionship to that guy when she is unsure to me?
IS SHE CONFUCED? i hope girls can reflect on this and translate to me what is she thinking and going through right now...

if youll ask me...i will definetly forget anything i love this girl so damn much...and when she left me i realized this love feeling that is more stronger than before...

thank you very much...to you time

[Diver012]

If you still love this woman, I would start off by asking her exactly what it is she has done. It sounds to me like there may be more to the story than shes letting on...

You may decide that after what you find out, maybe your feelings for her will change.

[the observer]

huh?what do you mean?i dont get you..i know what exactly what she has done...

[donpepot]

she is starting to miss you means she starts to realize your value...she is still confuced bcoz she still has feelings to that new guy

[the observer]

so why did she said i miss you soooo much and not asking to meet up or somthing...

and she pm me first...
can som1 translate me whats going to this girls head..

please

[thekhris]

shes on emotional spilling right now

[donpepot]

Originally Posted by the observer

so why did she said i miss you soooo much and not asking to meet up or somthing...

and she pm me first...
can som1 translate me whats going to this girls head..

please

she said she misses you because she really does...
and she did not ask to meet up with you..because she dosnt feel its right to do it at this time...