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Old 17th June 2006, 5:26 AM   #1
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Double Standards. . .

Question #1: What does it mean to have a double standard?

In other words, if someone exercises double standards what does that mean he/she is doing?

Question #2: Is it possible for a woman to unintentionally come across as having double standards? or to fool the other with idea that double standards are attainable and acceptable in society?

I need some clarification in this field.

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Old 17th June 2006, 6:52 AM   #2
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I thought this definition seemed appropriate

a rule or principle applied more strictly to some people more than others (or oneself)

Your second question... Yes. But I think it goes both ways.. its not exclusive to either sex
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Old 17th June 2006, 8:59 AM   #3
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I thought this definition seemed appropriate

a rule or principle applied more strictly to some people more than others (or oneself)
Pardon me, but I don't understand what you mean. I'm trying to get my head around this concept.

Why would a guy accuse a girl of having a double standard, when she's just trying to look out for her own back and not get hurt?

I thought double standards delt with trust conflicts, security, among other issues in a relationship.
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Old 17th June 2006, 9:58 AM   #4
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Why would a guy accuse a girl of having a double standard, when she's just trying to look out for her own back and not get hurt?
A guy might accuse a girl of having double standards if she expects more from him than she is willing to give. Selfish, in a way. Or possibly controlling.
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