This girl and I started out as roommates and after a while we became really involved. Spent all our time together, sex, vacations, gifts. We basically were a married couple. She wouldn't officially commit to me and had abnormal relationships with guys from work. She doesn't have many friends and because of that hangs out with the only people who want to: men who want to sleep with her. ANyway, I got very distant and fed up with it, and the further I pushed myself away, the more she said she would change, really loved me, missed me, needed me, ect. ect. She was afraid she'd screw it up if we were official but we were really close. So we made ammends and but in a moment of weakness I looked at her email that was open. Months before she had said some screwed up mean stuff about me. I told her I had done it, and she said she that it was just thoughts she was communitcating to her friends and it was also before she realized she needed me blah blah blah. She was really sad becuase she felt so close to me, but now it was over. (She had a boyfriend who used to read her emails all the time) We've slept together a few times since and she had to be around me still, and expects romantic things from me, but just wants to be friends.

The lease is up in 4 months, we are not living together. But I need advice. Part of me wants and hopes to fix it all and rebuild, the other wants me to say, fine, we're just roommates so stop with these needs you still have. Its a moody situation for both of us. I don't even know if I can get away from her after the lease is up.

My friends tell me that there is only so much a person can take and anyone would have read the email. That I had to know. I need the brutal truth from objective people here.

[ridingthebulls]

how can there be a committment if she wont stop sleeping around??