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Old 17th April 2006, 8:37 PM   #1
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Trouble talking to girls :(

I am 15
young I know!
I really have trouble finding what to say when I talk to girls. I guess its the old friend -> relationship thing. Alot of girls from my class have become my friends and i can talk to them fine but when i talk to a girl I like I don't know what to say.
I talk alot on instant messaging services but after a few minutes I just run out of things to say.
I went out with a girl for a while but it broke down just because I was having trouble to her. And I think she was a bit shy too but only around my or her friends.
I'd probably say that a good relationship comes from a good friendship type situation but now that i think about it I have trouble getting to that. I feel as though I could talk to her for a long time and she still wouldn't open up to me when it comes to instant messaging. I find IM much easier because I can say anything without feeling unpleasant reproccusions if things don't go well.

Even if i am talking to a girl, things going fine, I feel as though, I can't do anything while my friends are there. I call them my friends buti find them to be very judgemental people and often I feel that i just cant get away from them to go and meet a girl on my own. If I were to walk off someone would come with me 99% of the the time.
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