arh ok im hopeing you lot will be able to help me out

basicly i have know my friend for around 5 years now through cadets and school and i for the past 4 year i have know his sister who is two years younger than me
she has allwas been attractive to me and is a great girl and we get on really well

resently in the last 6 months we have been getting much closer and i have been so temped some times to ask her out esp as it has just been her b day - take her out for a drink.
(she knows i fancy her but i think it may be the same sort of problems as me that is holding her back from say to me)

how ever im really worried what her brother, my best mate would say/think

and also the reaction of my other friends who know her

its all ready a bit of a standing joke about ppl fancying her although not aimed at any one particular

hope some can help lol

some one must have an opinion on this! please help me out

[ddnnee]

ah ok, don't do it? unless you like to get your ass kicked by your best mate. look at outcomes.

you go for her: you will be expected to be faithful and all that or else u r killed. If you do anything wrong to her, you may wreck your friendship with your best mate. You MAY end up losing both friends. You end up finding another girl. BUT if you are good to her and all that, your best mate will be your bro in law. awesome

you don't go for her: you feel lonely inside, but you won't risk losing ur best mate and losing her as your current friend. You find another girl.

take your pick.