[cookie411]

My boyfriend and I have been together about 16 months. We have been through the fire and back. He is not the most positive person in the world and I have anger issues. We are in a LDR so when I am angry I don't hurt him although I have many thoughts of it. Well his home and everything he owned was lost in Katrina. But at any rate we have been having these BIG BLOW-OUTS lately and they have not been at all favorable on either of our ends.


Just today we had a HUGE arguement. I have a (504) area code on my cell phone. So I have had a few people call my phone with the wrong number, looking for their loved ones, i guess. My cell phone broke Sunday night(4/09/06) after falling on top of my radio which was on the floor. So when I awoke Monday morning(4/10/06) I realized that my phone was broken. My birthday was on Tuesday and some guy called my phone and said "hey (my name) this is (whatever his name is) so call me back when you get this message" and he was listening to some love song on is radio and he let it play out a little and then hung up. I don't know who the hell this guy is but I am assuming that he found out my name because as my voice mail I just recorded my name.


And since the few people that I talked to knew my cell was broken I didn't think I needed to check my messages but my boyfriend did this morning. And he called my house phone in a rage. this was about 7:14am and since I didn't have to go any where today I was trying to catch up on my sleeping. But he played the message back to me and I told him i didn't know who that was but of course he didn't believe me. And we have been arguing about this for about 9 hours and counting. He is convinced that I am lieing and I really hate for someone to accuse me of something that I haven't done and when I have told them the truth they would rather believe the lies they were thinking at first.


And he thinks that I have a guilty conscience because instead of letting him keep listening to the message over and over again (like he said he was) I erased the message. Because I didn't want to hear that **** everyday. I really wouldn't put up with this nonsense if I didn't love him. But......

WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSE 2 DO?????????????????

[Outcast]

And you two are together because?

because we love each other more than words can express

[MadDog]

1. Break up.
2. Solve your own personality issues before you enter another relationship.

[ddnnee]

you are accused of cheating because of some guy calling your cellphone? hard to get out of that one. Anyone would be on high alert if they heard some strange person calling their loved one. Since he won't believe you, just ignore the situation and make light of it. Of course if he still does not believe you, then he probably does not trust you enough and the relationship is going down hill from there.