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So, I've recently started to get over my ex now. She calls in the wee hours of the morning probably wondering how my member feels. But I ignore her calls. I go up to my bank every other friday to cash my paycheck and everytime I go I see this same sexy female and I instantly get butterflies.
What I'm wondering is how do I tell if she has an interest in me. Some of the things she does when I go up there is: another female will come up to me at the teller window and I'll ask for a deposit slip. She gives me one and as I'm filling it out she runs to the front desk. Then this sexy mama comes back and always helps me. What I think ( I wish) is going on is the other lady keeps telling the sexy mama when I'm there and has her come help me. One day as I was depositing a check, she sat behind the other teller and listened to me, when she could have been elsewhere doing other things. Is this a sign that she's interested and how do I approach her about persuing her? My buddy told me to ask her if she's got any bills with her face on them cause the ones they have now are ugly. I thought it was clever but she'd probably laugh at me and think I'm gayer than aids. I've totally lost my swagger at picking up ladies. Pick up lines are cheesy and most woman frown on them. Do I ask her if she has a boyfriend. One of you pimp daddy's has got the answer I neeed. I'd go take out money from the ATM and deposit it through the teller everyday but that would make me look desperate. I usually play it cool like I'm not interested but kind of flirt with her in a way.
Last time I deposited I said "thanks dear" she smiled. And another time when I was confused about my account she told me to come in the next day, as she winked at me, and they'd be able to help me. Im a ****ing pansy. HELP.
i wish i knew how to pick up the bank tellers... some of them are really really cute at my bank!! But most of them work in the back, and i'd need to ask for "help" regarding my account or something to talk to them. *sigh*
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My buddy told me to ask her if she's got any bills with her face on them cause the ones they have now are ugly. I thought it was clever but she'd probably laugh at me and think I'm gayer than aids.
Oh man, I've never heard that expression before but that's funny.
Your buddy's line is good. Some women think cheesy lines are funny. You just have to say it confidently and in a way where you know it's cheesy. She might laugh at it (which is a good thing).
The other things you mentioned might be signs. Give it a shot. Who cares if she says no.
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Before you do what the other lamers are suggesting, talk with her for a couple minutes and see if you both think the same way or have at least some commonalities. Be the cruise missle not the dumb bomb.
I went up to get my checking account straightened out. I told her I was out of town for awhile and she said she'd get someone to help me. I went to a guy and said that blonde is a cutie and asked if she had a boyfriend. He said yeah and a pretty serious one. Then I went up to her to get some money out. We made small talk she asked me where I went I told her Seattle. Then I asked her what she does in this town. She said school. Asked her where she was from originally. She told me. Then I said I'm going out golfing and asked if she ever golfs. She said no and I said maybe you can come out sometime. She didn't say much. But after I left and was walking away she said have a good night and have fun golfing. Im such a wuss. Maybe tomorrow when I drop my next paycheck off I'll make some small talk with her. Maybe ask her out. Thing that sucks is I'm moving soon and any future with her is out of the picture. Unless its a long distance one. Ask her to hang out sometime? What? confused. I've met a few chicks recently that help me get over my ex but this one would definetly make me forget about her.
Take your time. It's not a race. There's so very many fish out there that you can afford to be patient and not rush. Find a hobby, join Al-anon, volunteer or join a gym. Become you again and then you will feel more confident about approaching the opposite sex.
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Oh man, I've never heard that expression before but that's funny.
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