[babbah]

This story did not actually happened to me but to one of the most important person in my life...my Bestfriend.

Yesterday, i came over to her house and found out about this bad news- her boyfriend is going to be a father and husband to another girl.

ok, this is the story. i'll make it short.

My bestfriend and her boyfriend have been together for 7 long years..during the 6th year, she felt a bit left out because her bf is very busy with his training as a seaman and moved to a new city. so she have decided to breakup for the guy's own good.
she told him to focus on his dreams...coz he's been dying to be a seaman.
it hurts her but she felt more pain being left out. after few months..the guy flew to Orlando,FL to fulfill his dreams (he's now working on the ship-his long time dream has been fulfilled).
they never lost contact even if they broke up...they've been very good friends..still.

one day, her bf called and broke the news....

"he's going to be a father."

He met a girl when he moved to a new place and got her pregnant..but he said he dont love her. He loves my bestfriend so much. It happened during the time when he's longing for my bestfriend and found a comfort from another girl.

My bestfriend cried a river..she's been really hurt. She believed that even if they broke up, at the end of the day she still want to marry that guy. She only sacrificed the relationship because she wants her bf to follow his dreams...now it happened.
She's very faithful i know...she dont deserve this.

after few days of sorrow and suffering, she turned to God.
honestly, she dont feel mad about her boyfriend...
this is what she told me:

"things happen for a reason. Maybe God has given me this trial because something good will come my way in return."

"I may have lost the most important person in my life, but i discovered that there are lots of people around me who loves me and will never leave my side no matter what...my family, my friends and above all - God."


Until now she still feel the pain, but she have no anger in her heart.
She's still communicating with her ex bf...

He told her to wait for him but she refused..she has accepted the fact that they both have separate lives to deal with now.
but still, they are good friends.....


i hope it inspired you guys....breaking up is not the end of everything..it's just a beginning of a new hope, a new life and a new adventures that you will tackle in the near future.
Anger in your heart will not resolve anything..but FORGIVENESS and ACCEPTANCE.