I need help diagnosing my gf 's drug habit.
She goes out partying sometimes 4-5 nights a week. Never invites me, nor have I ever even met the people she goes out with. Comes home at 2 or 3 in the morning. She usually proceeds to yell at me and say awful things about me even if I'm sleeping.
These are her physical symptoms...
When she comes home the first thing I notice are her eyes. They're so dialated that they are pitch black. It's honestly scary to look at. The whites of her eyes are also bloodshot. I've also noticed her eyes are ever so slightly looking to the corners. (looks like she's looking around you).
When she gets into bed, she gives off heat like a furnace. She makes the bed so hot I start sweating and I swear you could see "heat lines" coming off her. Yet, she complains she's cold.
The most notable thing I've noticed (and that I can't figure out) is her breath. When I kiss her, her mouth tastes very sweet like a mouthful of sugar. Yet at the same time, Her breath has a very very faint paint thinner smell. You wouldn't know unless a few inches from her face. This doesn't seem to be typical alcohol breath although I know she drinks heavily when she's out. Usually she drinks beer, but I've realized "beer breath" smells and tastes like beer. Every time she comes home its the exact same potent taste and faint breath.
My guess is cocaine? Someone help me out especially with the breath thing. Thanks
Hmm... I don't know... There are alot of drugs that could be... Ecstasy, Herion or Cocaine... She is into something else along with drinking... I don't know how you can go and bring this up... I mean if you are really serious as to finding out I would just ask her what she is up to... Just have an honest conversation... you want to do that as soon as you can before this little habit of hers gets really bad...
I have asked her, but She really isn't straight with me. She often talks of having a "treat" and says it with a smile and does that "Mr. Burn's" thing with her fingers. I try to stay calm, but when she does that I get raging pissed off inside. I end up walking away with my tail between my legs.
I have asked her, but She really isn't straight with me. She often talks of having a "treat" and says it with a smile and does that "Mr. Burn's" thing with her fingers. I try to stay calm, but when she does that I get raging pissed off inside. I end up walking away with my tail between my legs.
Why do you take this treatment from her, regardless of what drug she's on?
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Well... I know that it isn't pot... That is one thing it can't be.... With the way your describing it... I would be like what the hell is this "trat" your talking about and ask her why she can't be honest.
I was reading this online... With what you said and what this says... I think she is using ecstasy
Signs of Ecstasy Addiction
The signs of ecstasy addiction may be hard to spot unless you observe the individual while they are on the drugs. While ecstasy is considered not as addictive as heroin or cocaine, it can cause other adverse effects including nausea, hallucinations, chills, sweating, increases in body temperature, tremors, involuntary teeth clenching, muscle cramping, and blurred vision. Ecstasy users also report after-effects of anxiety, paranoia, and depression. Ecstasy comes in all shapes and colors. Ecstasy is also known as XTC, X, Versace, the hug drug, the love pill, and numerous other names reflecting the various imprints on the pills.
You can't ask her. She won't tell you the truth. The dialited pupils are a give away, but like agnf said, that could be E or Heroin. Does she clentch alot? Her fists, jaw? When she gets into bed, is she wrestless? Usually people who are skeed, can either be mellow or a raging lunatic (I mean that by cleaning something and running around very fast) Not screaming like she does to you. Anything else you can tell us?
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Also that can be signs of Meth usage as well... So, It isn't cocaine...
Depending on what she is drinking that can make her breath smell bad... Maybe she has been smoking cigarettes or drink other kinds of liquor... sometimes when getting high it can make you do other things that you never done before...
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