I have been married for 12 years now to a wonderful wife. We have problems like all couples, but always work them out easily. However, there has always been a very flirty tension between me and one of my best friends wives. Nothing has ever happened, but recently I have thought of her more often. Recently she suggested the same in a joking manner, but when I asked more about it she said that she wasn't joking. She and my wife are very close as well. We are VERY confused to say the least. Feelings are very real on both ends, and scary because we haven't fallen into bed together so that is not a reason. Just looking for thoughts here.....

[Delectable]

why post twice in the same day...read the advice you are getting here

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84258/

[geaux1972]

sorry for the double post.