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Old 13th March 2006, 2:18 PM   #1
Beachgrl486
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Lightbulb It has taken a complete 180!

Ok so...the post I wrote before about him ignoring me...about an hour ago he messaged me back and it said..."wow, I just got all of your messages and I wasnt ignoring you...sorry...yes the beach sounds good one day this week" (i had asked him in one of the messages i thought he was ignoring if he wanted to go to the beach this week.) So hes not ignoring me...How do I handle this? I want to be back with him. I want to work things out. But i do not want to look desperate. I want to just go out and have fun and just not talk about it right now. Is that the best thing? I do not want to push him away. I know he still cares for me but as of last week he said right now he doesnt want anything too serious. I respect that. But I want him. How should I handle it? He said he wants to hang out and have fun.
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Old 13th March 2006, 2:22 PM   #2
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One thing is for sure.. It has only been a week since he told you he didn't want anything serious.. So I'd go under the assumption that he still does not want anything serious..

It sounds like he wants to date around and you are setting yourself up for a FWB situation.. if that is what you want then go for it..

If not then you need to go out with someone else.
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Old 13th March 2006, 2:25 PM   #3
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as i said in the other post.. hes being a player.. its a guy thing i think it makes them feel good. if i was you id simple textback saying yeah ok see you there.. or something along the lines then leave it.. do not keep bugging him.. trust me on this one.. really.. im with the biggest player ever.. i bet you when you both see eachother it wil be something special if you dont keep texting eachother e.c.t xx
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