Went Too Far With Co-Worker

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I am a professional who was attracted to a coworker. I always suspected he was attracted to me also. We started talking about a business he was getting into, and we started talking outside of the office. He asked me if I drank and like a naive fool I said he could come over my house to hang out, watch movies, etc. I also knew he was bringing alcohol even though I don't drink often. Needless to say, we ended up having sex. Things were okay, we see each other every day at work and we continued to make casual conversation after work. Less than a week later, we hooked up again. Only this time, he made it clear that all he wanted was sex. I was disappointed, but I accepted what he said and it's only been a few days but we haven't had sex again and we haven't really spoken outside of work.

The thing is, at work I can still feel him looking at me. One day I put my coat on my chair in the lunchroom, stepped out for a few minutes, and came back to find him sitting directly across from me. He obviously wanted to sit near me, but he acted so nervous throughout lunch, fidgeting with his food and plate, and hanging around longer than usual (he usually leaves the lunchroom before me) and then making small talk when we were alone in the lunchroom after others had left. Also, whenever I'm talking to another coworker, he usually agrees with/backs up what I say. I have no idea what his situation is, other than he is single and has a young child. I know the child's mother is in school in another state, but I don't know much else. Is there any hope of anything romantic evolving out of this, or is this a done deal?

Oh yeah, when we had sex it was great but he really didn't want to kiss me deeply or anything, so he did distance himself in that way. I still look forward to seeing him at work every day, but I think this may not be healthy if he is not capable of a real relationship with me. Should I find another job?