Is it normal behavior for a betrayed spouse, after the affair, to have sexual fantasies about people they know? I see men that I know in a different way, I cant help it. I always seems to find something sexy in every man I know. I know its not healthy, but I do fantasize about them. I sometimes find myself avoiding someone for a day or two because of a day dream or two....Has anyone else felt this way?
I haven't but let me tell ya, there is a whole wide range of "normal" when you are in this situation. Almost anything you feel after you get this kind of news is "normal" (well, except for feelings of hurting yourself or others).
Sure...in addition to betrayal etc., an affair is clearly about hot sex. You're a sexual being and you very easily can have these thoughts. Enjoy them and don't overanalyze, that's my advice.
__________________ Heavily medicated for your safety.
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Is this normal behavior after an affair?
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