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Old 6th March 2006, 12:01 AM   #1
luvncurls
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Smile lonely or alone?

This may seem a bit vague and longwinded, but it's something that's been on my mind for a while now. I am generally a person that is of the belief that if i am feeling lonely it's because there is likely something wrong and that I must improve myself. becuause, when it comes down to it, you can only really love someone you have to really love yourself first.
I have worked for years on being happy with myself, my emotions, my social situation, my body, my family, career and lots of other things that make up my life. I am in my mid-20's and I sincerely believe that I am in a better place than I have ever been with any of these things. I love work, my friends and family and myself.
However, for the past few months I have been feeling as if I really would love someone serious to share that with. I have "friends", but nothing serious. How can I tell if it's just me and some emotional neediness that I need to work on and need need to devote some more time to myself or maybe, I am at a point in my life where I am, to some degree that beautiful, confident, fulfilled woman that I always wanted to be and I want to share myself with someone in a healthy positive way. \
Any thoughts are appreciated.
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