[fraidycat]

The following is a response to members thread, however I think everyone on this forum should read what I have to say so I copy and pasted it.




Isn't it ironic you're out having an affair with a married man who has a family and on a message board getting advice on whether by not going over there you did the "right" thing. That's almost hilarious- It's really unfortunate that so many people never grow up they just get older. Why do married and committed people cheat? Selfishness? Sex drive? Instinct? Loss of interest? Maybe one or all of those things and on top of that..because they need to grow up sort of like the OW's and OM's that go along with this. My father had an affair with the married mother of a girl I was nearly best friends with. Let me just assure you that all the things the so called adults in the situation are too dense or too asnine to realize are going on..the children end up getting drug through the mud and having the real weight of the problem. Yes- that's right- the people innocent in the matter who didn't have a choice are the people who are inflicted with the emotional wounds and will end up with the emotional scars in the matter. I don't care how low your self esteem is, it's time to grow up people whether your the Ow the Om the MM or the MW.I'm spreaking to all of you.Other people may not want to come out and say it how it is to you but I really am not afraid of that.